Dr. Carla Bezuidenhout, Opvoedkundige Sielkundige /Educational Psychologist

Dr. Carla Bezuidenhout, Opvoedkundige Sielkundige /Educational Psychologist Opvoedkundige sielkundige dienste: psigo-terapie, spelterapie, psigo-opvoedkundige assesserings.

Teen hierdie agtergrond kon ons saam gesels oor die sleutels van ‘n gesonde gees en die belangrikheid van rus. Dankie Ho...
05/09/2026

Teen hierdie agtergrond kon ons saam gesels oor die sleutels van ‘n gesonde gees en die belangrikheid van rus. Dankie Hoër Meisieskool Bloemhof vir die geleentheid om hierdie belangrike sleutel met jul VRL te deel…

Baie dankie Laerskool Eikestad vir die geleentheid om saam met jul senior dogters te fokus op gesond-wees in verskillend...
27/08/2026

Baie dankie Laerskool Eikestad vir die geleentheid om saam met jul senior dogters te fokus op gesond-wees in verskillende lewensareas…

Alhoewel die woord ‘instaatstellers’ nie ‘n amptelike woord in die HAT is nie, word dit algemeen gebruik om te verwys na...
10/08/2026

Alhoewel die woord ‘instaatstellers’ nie ‘n amptelike woord in die HAT is nie, word dit algemeen gebruik om te verwys na ‘n faktor wat iets moontlik maak. Skoolsisteme, veral opvoeders in ‘n skoolsisteem, is van die belangrikste instaatstellers wat geaffekteerde leerders in emosioneel uitdagende tye ondersteun…

Such a relevant topic for high school parents to read about…
06/08/2026

Such a relevant topic for high school parents to read about…

Every year, I sit with families agonising over one question:
“Should my child stay in Core Maths or move to Maths Literacy?”
And almost every year, the conversation is driven by fear.

“People will think they’re not clever.”
“They’ll regret it forever.”
“What if we’re giving up too soon?”

Let’s change the conversation.

Choosing Maths Literacy is not choosing an easier life. Choosing Core Maths is not automatically choosing a better future.

The right choice depends on your child’s strengths, career aspirations, resilience and overall wellbeing.

Here’s the reality many families don’t talk about…

I’ve seen teenagers spending three or four hours every evening trying to survive Core Maths. They sacrifice sleep, sport, friendships and time with family. Their confidence slowly disappears because no matter how hard they work, they still feel like they’re failing.

The emotional cost can be enormous.

I’ve also seen learners move to Maths Literacy and flourish. Their marks improve, their confidence returns, and they suddenly have the capacity to excel in the subjects that truly align with their strengths and future goals.

That doesn’t mean Maths Literacy is “easy.” It has its own demands and requires consistent effort. But for the right learner, it can create balance instead of constant survival.

On the other hand, some learners genuinely need Core Maths because of the careers they hope to pursue. If they have the ability, motivation and support to succeed, persevering through the challenge can absolutely be worthwhile.

The goal should never be to protect a title.
The goal should be to help a young person leave school with:
✔️ Healthy self-esteem.
✔️ A realistic pathway into further study or work.
✔️ The confidence that they are more than a single subject.

A subject choice should open doors - not close them emotionally.

As parents, it’s okay to ask:
“Is my child struggling because this is hard… or because this isn’t the right fit?”

Those are two very different questions.

Let’s stop equating Core Maths with intelligence and Maths Literacy with failure. Our children deserve to be defined by far more than the subject written on their timetable.

‘n Belangrike artikel vir ouers oor akkommodasies en konsessie vir leerders…
05/08/2026

‘n Belangrike artikel vir ouers oor akkommodasies en konsessie vir leerders…

Ouers is dikwels onder die indruk omdat hulle ’n verslag met ’n diagnose het, is hul kinders outomaties geregtig op akkommodasie en konsessies in skole. Dis baie meer ingewikkeld, skryf Ronica Thompson.

28/04/2026

Depression can affect people of any age, but it can be confusing because it often looks different in children, teens, and adults. And since teens are already prone to moodiness, it can be especially hard to tell if they are struggling with depression. Knowing the signs of depression and how they dif...

A very important article for parents to read…
16/04/2026

A very important article for parents to read…

Think Roblox is just a safe game for your child? Think again!

Baie dankie Laerskool Louw Geldenhuys vir die geleentheid om saam met julle vandag tyd te spandeer aan die Louwtjie-waar...
16/04/2026

Baie dankie Laerskool Louw Geldenhuys vir die geleentheid om saam met julle vandag tyd te spandeer aan die Louwtjie-waardes vir 2026 en om te leer dat waardes (of die tekort daaraan) ons verhoudings met mense óf breek óf bou.

Die skoolterrein lyk pragtig en leerders en personeel lyk gelukkig! Altyd lekker om die Louwtjies so te sien!

What an honor it was having Nicky Abdinor at HMS Bloemhof. Such an inspiration hearing her personal stories and tools fo...
13/04/2026

What an honor it was having Nicky Abdinor at HMS Bloemhof. Such an inspiration hearing her personal stories and tools for life that equip, support and transform!

Baie dankie Laerskool Eikestad vir die geleentheid om vanoggend met julle oulike leerders te kon gesels oor waardes!
09/04/2026

Baie dankie Laerskool Eikestad vir die geleentheid om vanoggend met julle oulike leerders te kon gesels oor waardes!

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