A God-Perfect Marriage

16/07/2023

How can you Fully understand God's Mercy when you have never made any blunder in your life?

How can you understand God's Provisions when you have never had any time of NEEDS?

How can you understand God's power if Satan has never buffeted you before?

Everything that has ever happened to you or that is happening to you now is for you to practically experience a dimension of God that you have only heard about.

So count it all joy when you go through diverse trials.
Rise up whenever you Fall God is about to reveal himself to you in another dimension.

- Adeola Adeyemi

12/07/2022

An Invitation from God

Many people believe that their failures cause God to withdraw.

Yet one of the first lessons in Scripture proves otherwise. After Adam and Eve fell to temptation, God met them in their hiding place.

Jesus did the same with the woman at the well.

Despite her sinful condition, He pursued her, not to give condemnation or a list of dos and don’ts, but to give something that produced far more deliverance than any discipline ever could.

I don’t know what you face as you read this. But God does. And He’s not waiting to tell you off. He’s come with this message of love.

Your friend,

Kyle Winkler
Author & Bible Teacher
Author of Shut Up, Devil
Creator of the Shut Up, Devil app

07/07/2022

https://youtu.be/_qlN9o9L0P4

New Season Prophetic Prayers and Declaration [NSPPD] - 6th July 2022

13/06/2022

*Bro John since you have Received three different Sisters now and you claimed God said they are the one for you are you trying to say they God endorses Polygamy?

*Sister Jane you told bro Joseph that you will pray about his proposal and get back to him, but this is the 12th month and yet you are still pending the innocent bros who is still waiting for your Second Coming.
Let me ask you a question what if God also put you on Pending answer like this nko🙄

*Bro John, the Sister says you are not her Spec or her type yet you still insist on taking her by Force because of a vision?
How I wish you take your walk with God this Serious you would have grown to the point of knowing that the Plans of God for you are beautiful and if you truly know this you won't be forcing yourself into anybody's Life..
The only person you should take insults from is the person you are trying to win over to CHRIST not a Sister who have intentionally Closed her eyes from seeing the Glory of God stored up in a handsome brother like you.
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- Adeola Adeyemi

Ephesians 4.25
What this adds up to, then, is this: no more lies, no more pretense. Tell your neighbor the truth. In Christ's body we're all connected to each other, after all. When you lie to others, you end up lying to yourself. (MSB)

01/06/2022

IGNORING YOUR SPOUSE AFTER A MISUNDERSTANDING DOES NOT CHANGE ANYTHING.

So many adults still portray this childish attitude of ignoring their spouse after a misunderstanding, staying away from them won't solve the problem, keeping malice with them only makes the issue on ground to last for a longer period of time.

If you don't talk about it how would you fix the problem, the problem wouldn't disappear because the both of you are not talking to each other, the more the situation lasts the more harm it would cost in your relationship.

Who is at fault is not important when you have not talked about it, the most important thing at the moment is accepting that the both of you talk about it, understand where the misunderstanding is coming from and then taking responsibility of accepting your fault and apologize, promising not to allow it happen again.

Ignoring your spouse creates room for the devil to play mind games with you and complicate the situation the more, if you're both together the devil cannot pe*****te but when you leave your spouse all by themselves, when they became idle, the devil tend to use that opportunity and cause more havoc in your relationship.

Never make the mistake of ignoring your spouse after a misunderstanding, infact the best time to be with your spouse is after a misunderstanding, create room for dialogue, for discussion, make sure you talk about it, not just talking about it make sure you solve what ever misunderstanding it is.

Relationship coach
Moses Joseph Uteno

1Cor.7.5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. (NKJV)

20/05/2022

HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR SPOUSE'S MENTAL HEALTH...✍️

1. Avoid insults and abuse, they linger on in your spouse's mind even after the fight has ended.

2. Have a habit of asking your spouse, "How are you?", "Are you OK?". Sometimes your spouse needs someone to talk to, be that someone.

3. Be present for your spouse, give your spouse quality time. Being married yet feeling alone is not good for mental health.

4. Solve conflicts quickly. It is mentally unsettling when issues are prolonged.

5. Dance, laugh, play with your spouse. Pleasant memories are good for mental stability and rejuvenation.

6. Protect your spouse's sleep. Avoid drama before going to bed, go to bed at the same time as often as possible, cuddle and keep warm in bed. Good sleep = good mental state.

7. Avoid money conflicts. If there is one thing that brings mental strain in marriage is money problems.

8. Compliment your spouse and appreciate your spouse. This makes your spouse think well of self.

9. When you notice your spouse needs some "me" time, grant it. Forcing conversations and interaction might backfire and cause more mental tension. Allow your spouse time to process their thoughts as you affirm him/her of your unwavering commitment and love.

10. When you notice your spouse is not OK, or has become temperamental or irritable; gently and without judgement ask your spouse "Is everything OK?". You know your spouse best.

11. When your spouse opens up about a problem or an issue, don't belittle it. It is mentally draining when one feels trivialized, misunderstood or not listened to.

12. Cheer your spouse in the way they love to be cheered up when your spouse is in low spirits.

13. Hug your spouse. You would be amazed how much healing power a hug has and how many married people are yearning to be hugged.

14. When your spouse appears overwhelmed by tasks; lend a land. Give your spouse space to breathe, lighten the load.

15. Enjoy being together

16. When you have done wrong, take responsibility and apologize. It sooths your spouse's mind.

17. Pray for your spouse's well-being. The spiritual taking care of the mental.

18. Allow your spouse to do things that make him/her unwind such as going for walks, watching a movie, going to the spa, spoiling oneself.

19. Change environments time to time. Go out on dates, go for a holiday where you two aren't distracted; don't always be in the house. New experiences stimulate the mind.

20. Be patient with your spouse. Rushing your spouse to do things as you want and when you want can cause mental anxiety.

21. Don't let your spouse do everything in the marriage. Play your part to keep your spouse from mental fatigue.

22. Be peace to your spouse. Let your tone and demeanour be inviting and pleasant.

23. Be faithful. Nothing tears the mind apart like knowing or suspecting your spouse is cheating.

12/05/2022

We have an Online Prayer Group on WhatsApp where we do Conference Call everyday.
There used to be a LIMIT on the Numbers of those who can Join the Conference Call at a time.
So lately it came to Our Notice that a Feature that will Help us Break that Limit has been Activated but we all _Need to Upgrade our WhatsApp to be able to Enjoy._
And this is tantamount to us as a Believer there are Certain Upgrades we Need to daily do in the Spirit to be able to Qualify for Higher Features in God and to take Off any Limitations that is Currently on our Life.
Most things we are struggling to get in Life will effortlessly Come to us when we Labour to Grow in the Spirit!
It takes Data and Good Phone Memory to Upgrade our WhatsApp but it takes Hunger and Dying daily to the seductions of the Flesh to Upgrade ourselves for new features in God..

So I'm also telling you to UPGRADE YOURSELF IN THE SPIRIT FOR THERE ARE HIGHER FEATURES AND POSSIBILITIES IN GOD refuse to be Limited.
2 Peter 3:18, Hebrews 6:1, 1 Peter 2:2, Isaiah 55:1
- Adeola Adeyemi