18/05/2026
This Useful Tip Tuesday, we’re thinking about the tricky little window after school…
Sometimes the first 10 minutes home can shape the whole afternoon 🏫🌿
This Weeks Tip: Create an After-School Landing Spot.
Many young people hold it together all day, then let go once they are back in a safe place.
Before questions, homework, jobs or reminders, their body may need a small pause to shift out of “school mode”.
Here’s how you can help:
🟣 Pause before questions. Try saying: “I’m happy to see you. We can talk after you’ve had a little reset.”
🟣 Create a predictable landing place. This might be the couch, bedroom, backyard, beanbag, trampoline, or a quiet snack spot.
🟣 Offer fewer words. Instead of lots of questions, try: “Snack first or quiet first?”
🟣 Give their body time to arrive home. Some young people need quiet, some need movement, and some need connection nearby without talking.
🟣 Come back later. Once things feel steadier, try: “Is now a good time to tell me one thing about your day?”
Quick Win:
Try a 10-minute landing spot today. No questions, no jobs, no homework talk. Just snack, quiet, movement, or connection.
Why It Works:
A predictable pause helps young people feel safer after a busy day. When their body has time to settle, they often have more capacity for listening, talking and shifting into the afternoon routine. It also tells them: “You don’t have to perform the moment you walk through the door.”
Small pauses can make afternoons feel softer for everyone. Look out next month for our next Useful Tip Tuesday 💜
(Please Note: General information only, not a substitute for individual advice)