26/10/2026
Ever noticed how a conversation or interaction can be over, but your mind keeps going back to it? 🔄
You might replay what you said, analyse how you came across, wonder what someone else thought, or think about what you “should” have done differently.
This is sometimes called post-event processing. Our minds can get caught reviewing an event in an attempt to learn from it, prevent mistakes or gain certainty. But repeatedly going over the same ground can keep anxiety going rather than helping us reach a useful conclusion.
If you notice yourself stuck in the replay, try asking: “Is there anything useful I can learn or do differently next time?” If there is, make a note of it. If there isn’t, practise bringing your attention back to what is happening now.
Reflection can be useful. Repeatedly putting yourself on trial usually isn’t.