15/06/2026
đ¨ Primitive reflexes are NOT diagnoses.
This is one of the biggest myths I hear online.
A retained reflex doesnât automatically mean your child has a condition.
Just like a fever doesnât tell you why someone is sick.
Primitive reflexes are information.
Theyâre clues.
Theyâre signs that help us understand how a childâs nervous system is developing, adapting and responding to the world around them.
The problem is when reflexes get treated like labels.
âYour child has retained reflexes, so thatâs the problem.â
Not necessarily.
The better question is:
đ What is this reflex telling us?
Because reflexes donât exist in isolation.
They need to be considered alongside movement, posture, coordination, sensory processing, regulation, development, birth history and the childâs overall neurological function.
The reflex isnât the diagnosis.
Itâs part of the story.
And when you understand the story, you stop chasing labels and start understanding your child.
Thatâs where the real value is.
Not in finding something to blame.
But in finding something that makes sense.
DM me DECODER if you want a guide as to what primitive reflexes and more really mean to your childâs developmental story.