19/06/2026
Early doesn’t mean better.
It just means earlier.
Somewhere along the way, we’ve convinced parents that if a baby rolls, sits, crawls or walks early, they’re somehow “ahead.”
They’re not.
Development isn’t a race. It’s a process.
What matters isn’t when your child reaches a milestone. What matters is how they got there.
Did they develop the strength, coordination and control along the way?
Did their nervous system build the foundations that the next milestone depends on?
Or did they simply find the fastest way to achieve the outcome?
Because the body is brilliant at finding shortcuts.
And while shortcuts can make a milestone happen sooner, they often come at the expense of quality.
I’d take a baby who sits beautifully at 8 months over one who sits poorly at 5 months every single day.
Quality creates capacity.
Speed only creates comparison.
Your child doesn’t need to be first.
They need to build a nervous system that will support them for years to come.
That’s a very different goal.
If this changes how you think about milestones, DM me “DECODER” and I’ll send you my Baby Milestone Decoder.