05/08/2026
In my first pregnancy, I was completely consumed by positive birth stories. I believed with all my heart that if I just held onto good vibes and trusted the process, everything would unfold smoothly.
Then at 37 weeks, I got the news that my son was breech.
I was totally blindsided. I had to scramble to do a complete mindset shift, navigate my options, and advocate for myself in a system I hadn’t fully prepared to question.
If I had taken the time earlier to explore what my priorities were - and built the confidence to speak up - that pivot would have felt far less overwhelming.
Positive birth stories are wonderful, but on their own, they aren’t a complete birth strategy.
The reality is that at least 1 in 3 birthing people experience birth trauma, and many more walk out feeling disempowered or unheard.
True preparation means building your agency before you enter the room. ✨
Through Svadhyaya (self-inquiry), we get to examine our own conditioning - including the urge to be a ‘polite, quiet patient’ who doesn’t rock the boat. Real birth preparation gives you the grit and grace to:
☀️ Ask the hard questions when an intervention is suggested.
☀️ Say a clear, grounded ‘no’ or ask for time to pause and discuss.
☀️ Protect your birth space and your baby with unwavering self-advocacy.
You don’t need to fear birth, but your experience is far too sacred to leave to chance.
I wonder... have you ever had a moment in your pregnancy or birth prep where you had to totally pivot your expectations or mindset?
Let’s chat in the comments below. 👇