Find your Ray

11/09/2026

When you speak the truth and hold people accountable for their actions, you'll often be disliked for it.

The truth will never satisfy those who are busy twisting or hiding it. Speak it anyway.

You'll be called dramatic for naming things accurately. You'll be called difficult for expecting accountability instead of excuses. You'll watch people who should be uncomfortable with their own behavior redirect that discomfort onto you instead, because it's easier to attack the messenger than face the message.

That reaction was never actually about you. It's about what your honesty threatens, the comfortable narrative someone built to avoid taking responsibility, the peace that only exists because everyone agreed to stay quiet about what's actually happening. Your truth disrupts that agreement, and disruption always gets punished before it gets appreciated.

But silence was never actually protecting you. It was just protecting everyone else's comfort at the cost of your integrity. Speaking up doesn't guarantee you'll be believed immediately, or liked, or thanked. It just means you stopped participating in a lie you knew wasn't true.

Say it anyway. Not because everyone will receive it well, but because you'll finally be able to live with yourself for not staying silent.

10/09/2026

HELLO LOVELY ♡

Long time no see, as they say.

Although you may not have seen me posting over the past year, I have been here in the background.

If you have tried to reach me on my work phone about in-person channellings or healings, I know I have been difficult to catch.

The truth is, I have been resting.

Deep soul-resting.

The kind of rest that allows you to recalibrate, release what is no longer working and reconnect with who you truly are.

For that to happen, I needed space and time to discover who I am without all the other energies attached to me.

It has been a beautiful gift to myself... to honour my body, listen to its needs and give myself permission to slow down.

Slowly, I am beginning to come out of hibernation.

The recent 9-9 Portal and Virgo New Moon gave me the gentle push forward I needed to begin reconnecting and returning to an online presence.

I am so excited to be here again, connecting and engaging with you.

I have more updates to share soon, but for now...

It is so lovely to connect with you again ♡

10/09/2026

STOP AND SMELL THE FLOWERS ✦

This is your permission to buy yourself flowers!!!
These little pretty things can boost your mood, your vibe and bring a little more beauty into your life.

You deserve flowers just because ♡

19/07/2026

10/04/2026

Good morning lovelies ☀️

A little Etsy update from me… because I’ve been a bit quiet on here lately, and for good reason.

Behind the scenes, I’ve been deep in creation mode… building something completely new. A modality that feels like the next evolution of my work, and I can honestly say I am so excited for what’s about to come through. Launch is coming soon and it’s been taking a lot of my focus… in the best way.

While I’ve been a little MIA on socials, FindyourRay on Etsy has continued to grow in the most beautiful way.

We’ve now reached over 2,000 sales, with a 4.9⭐ rating from 400+ reviews, and around 100 active listings after 4 years on Etsy.

And when I really sit with that… it’s not just 'numbers'.
It’s thousands of moments of connection, healing, trust, and transformation.

Every order, every message, every review… it all matters.
This space has never just been about offerings. It’s about creating something people can come to when they need support, clarity, or a place to land.

So thank you… truly… for being part of this journey with me 🤍

And just quietly… a little nudge if you’ve been feeling called to anything in the shop 👀

My 35% off Etsy sale ends today, and I’ve also just added some discounted bundle options to support you even deeper in your healing journey.

It feels like a bit of a closing chapter before everything expands again.

Big things are coming… and I can’t wait to share them with you

14/12/2025

December is National Giving Month, a time to celebrate compassion, generosity, and the simple acts of kindness that strengthen our communities. Dr. Maya Angelou believed deeply in the power of giving — not only materially, but also with love, time, attention, and care.

In her poem “Continue,” she reminds us: “Continue to be who and how you are, To astonish a mean world, With your acts of kindness”

Her words call us to recognize that giving is not limited to grand gestures. It lives in how we show up for others, how we speak life into one another, and how we carry hope into the spaces that need it most.

This month, we honor every person who gives — formally or quietly, publicly or behind the scenes. Your generosity uplifts, restores, and reminds us that we are more alike than unalike.

May we continue to give with open hearts and open hands, just as Dr. Angelou taught.

13/12/2025

◆ Bound by words ◆

Oaths and vows are often spoken of as ancient things.
Old temples. Old rituals. Old lifetimes.

“You have my word.”

We say it casually now, almost lovingly, as if it carries no weight anymore.
As if words are harmless.
As if intention doesn’t bind.

But are oaths and vows really of the past?

I don’t believe they are.

In modern life, they’ve simply changed shape.

What has changed is the speed of communication.

News travels instantly now.
Screenshots. Voice notes. Group chats. Social media.
Information moves faster than our nervous systems can regulate.

And because words can spread so quickly, control over words has become currency.

This is where manipulation enters.

They hide inside phrases like
“Don’t tell anyone.”
“Promise me.”
“This stays between us.”
“If you really cared, you wouldn’t share this.”

What looks like trust can quietly become a bind.

What sounds like intimacy can turn into obligation.

And what is framed as loyalty can slowly become a way to manage risk, reputation, or accountability in a hyper connected world.

Words are not neutral.
They carry charge, frequency, expectation, and agreement.

When someone asks you to hold something in silence, it matters why.

Is it about safety and respect in a world where things spread fast?
Or is it about control, power, or fear of exposure?

There is a very real energetic difference between conscious confidentiality and coerced silence.

One is chosen freely.
The other is imposed subtly, often emotionally.

And here’s the part we don’t talk about enough…

When you agree with your words, your body listens.
Your nervous system listens.
Your field listens.

You may feel heavy, tight, anxious, or responsible for something that was never meant to be yours to carry.

This is how modern oaths operate.
Not through ceremony, but through suggestion.
Not through ritual, but through emotional pressure layered over fast moving communication.

As a healer, I see this constantly.
People bound by words they spoke to keep the peace.
To avoid conflict.
To be liked.
To be chosen.
Or to stop something from spreading too quickly.

But truth wants movement.
Energy wants honesty.
And your soul wants sovereignty, not silence born from fear.

You are allowed to revisit your words.
You are allowed to release agreements that no longer feel clean.
You are allowed to say, “That no longer feels aligned for me.”

Your word is sacred.
And so is your right to choose it consciously.

If this landed, let it land gently. ♡
And maybe take a moment to ask yourself…

What words am I still living by, without realising?

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Today's thoughts.
With love,

Ray xo