Beckett Glaves Family Funeral Centre

10/16/2026

You Can’t Do It All by Yourself

When we lose someone and as we begin a new life following their death, sometimes there is a tendency towards self reliance. We don’t want to be an imposition or burden on others; they have their own lives to live and adding to the responsibilities they already have doesn’t seem right. So, we forge on with our own life independently as we grieve and live in a new world without our beloved.

Initially this may seem to work, but the feelings we have need to be shared. Holding thoughts in may mean they are not processed and long term this may lead to an inability share in healthy relationships. If everything is left ‘bottled up’ at some point cracks will appear.

It’s important to recognize that others are willing to help when and in the way you may need them to. Sometimes it’s just a simple matter of talking with them so they can witness if you are having difficulties, which will subsequently lead to them being there for you if and when needed. It may be as simple of getting together for a regular coffee at a local coffee shop, sharing experiences and challenges that are being faced.

In some instances, especially with the elderly when a spouse has died, the effects of this loss is much more than just an emotional loss. It may mean adjusting to an entirely different lifestyle which includes many responsibilities that will need to be learned and taken care of. Family and friends need to be available to help as required, as grief and a new life are experienced.

And those who have experienced loss need to understand that though they think they may be strong, they can’t do it all by themselves.

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10/14/2026

View Joan Holland's obituary, contribute to their memorial, see their funeral service details, and more.

10/14/2026

View William Maguire 's obituary, contribute to their memorial, see their funeral service details, and more.

10/12/2026

Happy Thanksgiving!

Our management and staff at Beckett Glaves Family Funeral Centre wish you a day filled with festive moments as you gather and break bread with the special people in your life. As we reflect on the good things in life, let us be mindful of the meaning of the day and welcome gratitude into our thoughts and hearts.

“What if, today, we were grateful for everything?”
-Charlie Brown

10/09/2026

10/06/2026

View Lucy Wilson's obituary, contribute to their memorial, see their funeral service details, and more.

10/05/2026

Including a Memory Jar as an Interactive Part of the Service

In recent years, the use of a memory jar as part of the service has been gaining popularity. These beautiful holders of memories not only serve as a means to pay tribute to a lost loved one, but also offer a way to provide comfort to a grieving family as messages are shared following the service.

What is a Memory Jar?
A memory jar is any type of vessel used to collect memories of the deceased loved one. Family and friends are encouraged to share their favourite thoughts and stories on note cards which are then placed in the jar and subsequently given to the family after the service.

Steps to Create a Memory Jar
1. Select the container. The options are limitless and can range from a family heirloom such as a jewelry box to a glass jar, or even a ceramic, tin or wooden box.
2. Decorate the container. Include artwork from grandchildren, stickers, inspirational quotes and even fairy lights.
3. Choose fancy paper, cards and pens. These will dignify the act of leaving a message. Leave these materials by the guestbook or place them at a feature table during the reception.

If you are unable to create and personalize your own memory jar, there are many pre-made options available online.

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09/30/2026

Every Child Matters
Wear an Orange Shirt on September 30

Today, Canadians across our country will don orange shirts to raise awareness for the individuals, families and communities impacted by residential schools. Also known as National Day for Truth and Reconciliation, Orange Shirt Day aims to remember the children who were forced into the residential school systems and never returned home.

Over 150,000 indigenous children attended these schools from the late 1880s until the mid-1990s. During that period, over 5,000 young Canadians died while under school care. Orange Shirt Day encourages the sharing of their stories on the journey to reconciliation to help ensure a better life for future generations. It also is a symbol for the healing journey for survivors.

It was residential school survivor Phyllis (Jake) Webstad who brought the orange shirt concept to life after sharing her own story. As a six-year-old, she recalls arriving for her first day of school in a new orange shirt – a gift from her grandmother – only to have it taken from her, in effect robbing her of her feelings and identity.

A federal stat holiday since 2021, events across the country will commemorate the history and legacy of residential schools in an effort to remember that Every Child Matters.

For more information, visit OrangeShirtDay.org.

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09/29/2026

View Jane Torok's obituary, contribute to their memorial, see their funeral service details, and more.

09/28/2026

Peace of Mind, always a Goal in Whatever we Undertake

With most decisions we make almost all of us have as a goal the need to achieve peace of mind. You choose a child care provider, or purchase a new or used vehicle; you decide on a vacation getaway, or you select a dentist or health care provider; an underlying wish is for this choice to provide peace of mind. You are hopeful who you’ve chosen will treat your children right, you are hopeful the vehicle will operate for many years with minimal investment in maintenance and repairs. You hope the getaway will be an ideal place to create happiness and provide many wonderful memories. Yes, Peace of Mind, that feeling that comes with knowing a good decision has been made is very powerful.

When it comes to funeral arrangements, peace of mind occurs at two levels. The first is at the service provider level, knowing you’ve chosen and will work with someone who has your best interests as their priority. We’ve supported countless families over the years and in doing so, we strive to achieve outstanding service and it is this that becomes the basis for being known as a reputable provider, one where the communities trust and confidence are placed with us.

The second way peace of mind is found is in making decisions to ensure the service that is planned for as a tribute to a loved provides meaning for all in attendance. Yes, we are very mindful of your needs and listen carefully to arrive at an ideal plan.

Funeral planning is another aspect of life that warrants time and effort to achieve peace of mind. We are here to help you through this process. We have the experience and insights to find a truly optimal plan.

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