10/30/2026
Vulnerable post:
My son told me he didn’t want to wear his Halloween costume, and my whole body braced. 🎃
A voice in me said he’s going to be the only one. He’s going to stand out.
I do this work for a living, and I still felt it. That’s the thing about our protective parts: they don’t care how many credentials we have. They’re still trying to keep a younger version of us safe from something that already happened.
When I got curious instead of reacting, I met that part. I thanked it, let it know I had it, and came back to my son as the parent he needed.
Your reactions aren’t random. The road rage, the snapping at your kids, the shutdown after a comment from a coworker: these are trailheads. They’re invitations to meet the parts of you that have been working overtime for years.
You don’t have to follow yours alone. 🤍
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