10/28/2026
The old job emailed. Or the old partner liked a photo. And suddenly the thing you fought to leave looks like a warm house with the lights on.
It was that bad. You have the receipts. You just filed them where you don't look.
I call this hanging on to a dead butterfly. We cling to what's familiar long after it stopped working, because familiar feels like safe. What you're holding is already gone.
Nostalgia is the butterfly's PR department. Great marketing team. Terrible memory.
My October article for The Wellness Universe is about the pull back to what you outgrew, and the one question that settles it: https://blog.thewellnessuniverse.com/nostalgia-is-a-liar/