09/09/2026
If I could go back and talk to myself in my 20s, I wouldnât tell her to buy better skincare.
Iâd tell her to understand her body sooner.
Because after treating acne for over 20 years, and going through my own health challenges, Iâve learned that symptoms are often signals. And when we only try to suppress the symptom, we can miss what the body is asking us to pay attention to.
These are 7 things I wish I had understood earlier:
1. Stop avoiding the sun completely.
Healthy light exposure plays a role in circadian rhythm and vitamin D. I wish I had understood the difference between intentional, appropriate sun exposure and excessive UV exposure.
2. Donât just supplement low iron. Ask WHY itâs low.
My ferritin remained low despite supplementation. I needed to investigate what was contributing to it rather than continually trying to replace what my body was losing or not utilizing well.
3. More exercise isnât always better.
I thought pushing harder meant I was healthier. But when your body is already under significant stress, constantly adding intense exercise may be another stressor rather than the solution.
4. Bloodwork is valuable but it isnât always the whole picture.
Looking at symptoms, history, hormones, gut health, nutrient status and other appropriate testing can help us understand patterns that a basic blood panel alone may not explain.
5. Eat consistently enough to support your body.
Skipping meals was normal for me. I didnât understand how much nourishment, blood sugar regulation and metabolic health mattered to my hormones, nervous system and skin.
6. Take your nervous system seriously.
I spent years worrying about what other people thought of me and living in a constant state of internal pressure. Healing required more than supplements. It required changing the way I lived.
7. Stop treating acne like the enemy.
This one changed everything.
I learned to ask: What is driving the inflammation that is showing up through my skin?
Your answer may involve hormones, gut imbalances, nutrient deficiencies, metabolic health, stress or several factors working together.
Comment CLEAR and Iâll show you where I would start.