Laura How

Call Directions Website

I’m a relationship therapist specialising in s*xless marriage and female s*xual desire in long-term relationships. Her mission?

I help couples rebuild intimacy, emotional connection, and s*xual confidence. Laura How is a UK-based relationship counsellor and coach with over 20 years of experience in mental health. Known for her no-nonsense, results-focused style, Laura challenges traditional counselling models with a bold philosophy rooted in truth, personal responsibility, and self-agency. She helps couples create intimate, honest, and s*xually connected relationships that support mutual growth, healing, and lasting fulfilment. Laura believes strong marriages are the foundation of emotionally healthy families—and a healthier society. To end the gender war—one couple at a time—by helping men and women truly love and respect each other. Follow for insights, tough love, and real strategies to transform your relationship.

27/10/2026

Couples therapists aren't talking about s*x.
Why?

25/10/2026

We're constantly told that if a marriage is s*xless, the only solution is to work on the emotional connection. In a 2006 study, researchers followed 283 long-married couples over eleven years. Greater s*xual satisfaction predicted improvements in marital happiness, but greater marital happiness didn't predict improvements in s*xual satisfaction. And that's often what I see in my own work with couples: when the s*xual relationship breaks down, the marriage often follows.

24/10/2026

S*x is everywhere you turn. The adverts, the films, the music. Even the local gym. Yet suggest married couples put some effort into their s*x life and everyone loses their minds.

23/10/2026

Good s*x or a happy marriage: which comes first? Researchers followed 283 married couples for eleven years. A better s*x life predicted a happier marriage. Not the other way around.

22/10/2026

Couples therapists aren't talking about s*x. I hear from married couples who've spent years in therapy without a single therapist ever bringing up their s*x life. Not once. Why?

22/10/2026

How much s*x should married couples be having? Across three studies involving more than 30,000 people, couples tended to be happier the more often they had s*x, up to about once a week. So as long as your marriage is safe, stable and loving, that's the baseline I recommend as a relationship therapist. And for many couples, more is often better.

16/10/2026

Lovers, not room mates. When we neglect our s*xual fitness, the marriage suffers too. The house goes cold. 🏠

Free S*xual Fitness Check-Up: link in the first comment.

16/10/2026

How s*xually fit are you? 🏃‍♀️

S*xual fitness isn't measured by how often you have s*x. It's about whether you're looking after that part of yourself, and the s*xual connection you share with your spouse.

❤️ Comment FIT and I'll send you my free 20-question S*xual Fitness Check-Up 👇

*xlessmarriage

14/10/2026

Libido doesn't just mean s*x drive. It's life force. ✨ But it's not luck and it's not free.

Free S*xual Fitness Check-Up: link in the first comment.

14/10/2026

S*xual fitness doesn't look after itself, any more than physical fitness does. I've made a free 20-question check-up to help you see what's working and what needs attention. Link in the first comment.

Address

1 Mendip View Gardens
Axbridge
BS262FS

Telephone

+441934900539

Website

https://laurahow.com/

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Laura How posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.