The Big O

06/01/2024

10 Reasons Why Women Can’t Have Or***ms During In*******se 🥀

Learning how to have an or**sm isn’t just about the physical act, it’s also the sacred journey into who you are as a woman. And part of this journey is also diving into the darkest parts of your psyche, into your fears, your anxieties, your guilt, and the s*xual shame, so that your seductive and...

10/12/2023

S*x is a beautiful, natural human need and the repression of natural needs leads to more problems and creates a society that is in denial of reality. 🔚

22/11/2023

❌ Or****ic Block Number 4 ❌

You find it difficult to let go and give up control 🕳️

You are midway through s*x and suddenly you have a thought that disconnects you from the s*xual experience. So regardless of how much stimulation you enjoy, you find it hard to let go. It feels like you’re hitting a wall. Part of the process of learning to let go also includes allowing yourself to be vulnerable with yourself and your partner. Speak to your s*xual partner about your fear of losing control and ask for their support. For a woman to have an or**sm in the presence of another takes a lot of vulnerability. When you are scared to let go your body naturally tenses and you tend to hold on to your breath. This makes it even harder to let go. The more relaxed you are, the more likely you can let go, so learn to get more comfortable about being vulnerable with your partner. 🫂

13/11/2023

❌ Or****ic Block Number 3 ❌

Too much pressure to or**sm 🤷‍♂️

Does your s*xual partner keep asking during in*******se: ‘Are you nearly there yet?’ Men unconsciously put pressure on women to or**sm because it makes them feel confident and masculine. They align it with their self-identity. They have yet to discover that presence and connection are more important than their s*xual performance. The solution here is that when you or your partner put too much pressure to or**sm realizing it creates frustration, stress, and tension in the body. S*x is like life: it is about the journey and not the destination. Enjoy each s*xual moment and pleasure without any expectations. This is the first step to becoming more s*xually embodied.