11/04/2023
🔹WHAT WE ATTRACT🔹
🔹My “Big one” (age 7) asked me the other day “Mummy, Why are you so nice?” Which was such a sweet observation as quite often, when I’m feeling tested by parenting, I wouldn’t say I come across as “Nice”, more like “Shouty Mummy” (Urgh, hate her!). To put it into context, I think Daddy was having a rubbish day and was being particularly grumpy with us, so it probably highlighted my nice-ness 😆 anyway…
🔹…My answer to him was pretty much this. If you’re nice to people, people are nice back. If you smile, people smile back. You get back what you give out. As the day went on, we were in a lovely candle shop and the boys were being really careful and were polite to the shop owner when he chatted to them. He later offered them a free little Easter egg, which was so gorgeous, and such an example of what we had just been discussing. Love it when that happens 😊