11/07/2026
Who are you when life changes everything?
There is a Bible character I have admired for many years.
But it wasn't until I held the lifeless body of my precious daughter, Abigail, in my arms that I truly began to understand her.
Mary was no longer just the mother of Jesus in a Bible story.
She became a woman who knew what it meant to surrender, to trust, to carry unimaginable weight, to be misunderstood, and ultimately, to grieve.
As a parent carer, I know what it feels like for life to rewrite your plans overnight.
๐One diagnosis.
๐One phone call.
๐One moment...
..and suddenly the identity you built around your career, your family, your dreams, and your expectations begins to shift.
You find yourself asking questions you never imagined:
Who am I now?
Will I ever recognise myself again?
Can God still use this version of my life?
Mary's story reminds us that our identity is never defined by our circumstances. It is defined by the One who calls us His own.
This is the beginning of a deeply personal five-day journey through Mary's life as we explore:
โจ Identity
โจ Submission
โจ Purpose
โจ Discipleship
โจ Offering
โจ Grief
If you are a parent carer, or if life has left you wondering who you are beneath the weight you carry, I pray this devotional becomes a place of hope, healing, and rediscovery.
Because before you are a caregiver...
Before you are exhausted...
Before you are grieving...
Before you are anything else...
You are who God says you are.
๐ Our new YouVersion Bible Plan is now available. Search for "Talking Faith for Parent Carers" by OAKonsult, choose the plan, and begin this journey with us today.
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