04/06/2026
Neurodivergent Family Systems - Intergenerational Patterns & Relational Dynamics.
As a sensitive woman, I was the first person in every room to sense when something was wrong.
This began a long time ago, inside the first system I was born into.
At 23, I left home and travelled halfway around the world, and I’ve begun again and again several times since - starting a family of my own, getting divorced, co-parenting, and learning to reparent myself.
Each time I find myself asking the same question:
“Where does the pattern end, and where do I begin?”
Today I will speak at nscience UK on Neurodivergent Family Systems - Intergenerational Patterns & Relational Dynamics.
This changes everything:
When you stop treating neurodivergence as the identified patient’s problem and start seeing it as a family ecology, the patterns become visible.
The sensitive child who overreacts.
The mother who is holding everything together.
The grandmother nobody addressed, but everyone recognised her impact.
Neurodivergence manifests as both nature AND nurture.
Often, they’re inherited patterns through the family lineage.
And for AuDHD women, women who had never fitted into neat boxes and never seen, recognising this is where breaking the cycle begins.
I’m Dr Samantha Hiew, a lived experience researcher, community builder, AuDHD woman diagnosed with ADHD at 40 and then ASD at 44.
I bring all three into every room - research, collective stories, and my personal insight - to humanise our neurodivergent experience in today’s world.
(Something is coming in July for practitioners who want to go deeper. Watch this space.)