Thereafter Farewells

Thereafter Farewells Award Winning Funeral Services. Specialist in bespoke and environmental choices.

Providing flexibility, transparency and humanity allowing you to say goodbye in a way that is right for you.

Life Takes a Village,For the good times and the bad.Family is not only the ones we’re born with. It’s the ones who show ...
19/08/2026

Life Takes a Village,

For the good times and the bad.

Family is not only the ones we’re born with. It’s the ones who show up. The friend who becomes a sister. The neighbour who becomes an anchor. The people we choose, again and again, to carry each other through in life, and especially at its end.

Life is a wild and unpredictable path. None of us are meant to do this alone. ot the dying, not the grieving, not the living.


Poem of the day from the brilliant Donna Ashworth

Beautiful cosmos 🌎🌒💫
13/08/2026

Beautiful cosmos 🌎🌒💫

It is a real honour to be a part of the  event steering group a collective of professionals and individuals managed by B...
05/08/2026

It is a real honour to be a part of the event steering group a collective of professionals and individuals managed by Bankside Open Spaces Trust

This sacred site in the shadow of the Shard holds the remains of over 15,000 outcast women and their children, paupers, s*x workers of the area denied burial on consecrated ground. Today it’s a living shrine, ribbons, poetry and remembrance.

It was so good to see the space animated and brought to life with an intimate live set by Marc Almond for TON launch of vol 6.

Creating space to honour our dead within the heart of our communities is close to my heart so it was a priviege to be a part of making this event happen.

Love Loss Life is not just a slogan for Thereafter, it is at the core of all we do, in the funerals we deliver and within the wider cultural shift in death, dying and honouring life today.

Last night’s gathering was a glorious crowd of vibrant style coming together to whitness this blessing of land in song. Massive congratulations JERMAINE GALLACHER for the success of his stunning publication and the event to celebrate it

04/08/2026

“You think outside the box, you do, don’t you.” 🌿

That’s what a groundsman said to us recently, watching a ceremony take shape in the gardens at Golders Green Crematorium — I guess he isn’t wrong. Essentially, what we do best is to listen to personal needs and make it happen.

A family came to us wanting a cremation, but not “that” funeral. Not the cold formality, not the conveyor belt.

They wanted woodland calm, easy access for elderly relatives, and somewhere close enough to central London where they could visit again and again, with ease, on public transport.

So we reimagined the day itself 🕊️

A waterside ceremony beneath old trees → a walk of reflection through the gardens → arriving together for the final farewell.

Gathering. Walking. Arriving. Saying goodbye. Space to feel it, not rush through it.

Funerals are gatherings we wish were not having to attend so aim to make them kind, and dare I say, feel normal, in a language we understand. A little light refreshment on arrival was a simple nuance to assist in creating such a day 🧋

As far as we know, it’s the first time Golders Green’s gardens and chapel have been brought together this way for one ceremony and we’re very grateful for thei open minds and trust in us to deliver such ceremonies

This is what we mean by reimagining funerals - creating days that leave people with something to carry forward, not just something to get through 🤍

Full story on our blog 🔗 in bio

Delighted to receive certification as a recommended Funeral Director by the Greener Globe Globe Standard Awards and to h...
26/06/2026

Delighted to receive certification as a recommended Funeral Director by the Greener Globe Globe Standard Awards and to have it presented by Professor Hilary Granger OBE, chair of The Cremation Society and President of FBCA, Alan Jose 🏅🍃

We don’t need to talk about climate change anymore, the weather is doing it for us! ☀️☀️☀️
It could not be more vital to discuss and encourage sustainable practices with the funeral industry

Yet another brilliant CBCE (Cremation Burial Communication, Education) conference discussing the industry past, present and future.

- Is the UK Funeral Industry ready for new funerary methods?
-From McFunerals to Meaningful Farewells (something I have a lot to say about)
- What could regulation look like?
- With a keen eye on Scotland, updates from the MOJ.. it was a packed 3 days, and still time for laughs and socials

Always good to catch up with friends and colleagues old and new, inc Simon at Fauness Group to hear how human composting is progressing 🌳

🚝 Back into London off the train and straight into the Blue Earth Summit London Action Climate Week event 🌏

As always an inspiring panaal of positive, progressive innovatiors, disruptors !

A big week and a hottie but there’s no time like the present and there’s work to be done 💪☠️🌺🌊

Thankfully it is time for the weekend. 🍻

19/05/2026

Pure evidence of the power of coming together ♥️

Abney Park Chapel
1 very beautiful venue
3 very different and equally as beautiful styles of funeral

Each one tailored to individual needs.
Each concluded with an unattended Direct Cremation

The DC conversation is a big one, rather dominate in the funeral sector, it’s steady rise in public choice disrupting a firmly embedded model however I can evidently say, when used well, they facilitate freedom and flexibility in creating farewell beyond the cooking cutter form.

Abney Park was built as a community mortuary chapel. It is a real privilege be able to honour and celebrate life here again. There’s no room for burials in the cemetery but pre cremation funeral ceremonies work wonderfully.
Its open plan layout allows for very personal and flexible use of space for gatherings of various sizes.

Thereafter special in tailoring funerals to you. Turning sad days into very special days, or at least heart warming memories to look back on. There is no right or wrong in how you say goodbye

Unquestionably there is strength in community and least we not forget.

Should you wish to discuss a funeral at Abney Park or alternative venues please get in touch.

As always, 🔗 in bio ♥️🕊️

Funeral flowers 🌺 what a beautiful image to be able to hold in your mind.Dressing the coffin, a symbol of love and life....
14/05/2026

Funeral flowers 🌺 what a beautiful image to be able to hold in your mind.

Dressing the coffin, a symbol of love and life.
No plastic. Wild, natural, big, bold or sometimes a single stem says all you need. There are no rules.
Say it your way 💖

Funerals tailored to you,
Thereafter Funeral Services
Here to listen, guide, advise and support as much or as little as you need.
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Following participating in Resting Reefs webinar on ‘Regenerative Death’ this is something we’ve been thinking about a l...
08/05/2026

Following participating in Resting Reefs webinar on ‘Regenerative Death’ this is something we’ve been thinking about a lot at Thereafter.

We advocate sustainable choices. In the rise of unattended direct cremation, how we honour our dead and move forward with loss is something of growing concern.

What if your final act was your greatest gift to the planet? 🌊🌿

Today, on Sir David Attenborough’s 100th birthday, we’re celebrating new ways to say goodbye, honouring life in ways that truly give back.

It is the intersection of sustainability, design, and deep human meaning, and it is one of the most hopeful spaces in end-of-life care today.

Memorial reefs teeming with marine life. Mycelium coffins that feed the forest. Soil that turns ashes into living trees.

Death doesn’t have to cost the earth.
Sharing knowledge and options, we’ve written about some of the most innovative, progressive and positive solutions to date

Read the Journal, link in bio to read more 🔗

 awareness week. This year’s theme, ‘Let’s talk about death and dying. We’re big advocates of building healthier relatio...
05/05/2026

awareness week. This year’s theme, ‘Let’s talk about death and dying.

We’re big advocates of building healthier relationships with our natural demise so for this week, 4th-10th May, we’re opening up our phone lines for you to

Explore your options
Confront your fears
Or engage in a general chat around death and dying

Whether you need to arrange a funeral now or you’re thinking ahead, we’re here to turn what can be difficult conversations into positive experiences and outcomes

As we were told back in the 80’s, “it’s good to talk’

📞 020 7123 9085
[email protected]

WEBINAR invite: Some conversations are long overdue. This Wednesday, we’re having one of them…Our needs and understandin...
27/04/2026

WEBINAR invite:

Some conversations are long overdue. This Wednesday, we’re having one of them…

Our needs and understanding of the funeral has changed, We’re all encouraged to live more sustainably but with 80% of us opting for cremation how can we make our exits a little more ecological?

I’m thrilled and honoured in equal measure to be in conversation with some of the most forward-thinking voices in regenerative practice whose work is reshaping how we think about life, death, business, design and our relationship with the natural world:

Join a progressive and provocative panel discussion exploring how the cultural of death and dying is changing, and how we are moving beyond tradition to engage new, sustainable practices that reposition death with the social and ecological architecture.

Our hosts:
The brilliant
Date: Wednesday 29th April
Time: 5:30 GMT
Location: on-line - free via Eventbrite link in bio

Panelist In conversation
Co-founder,
UK’s leading platform for regenerative business and climate innovation

Nick DeLeon
Pioneer in service design & sustainability
Executive Education & Knowledge Exchange Lead, Royal College of Art

Debbie Malynn - founder, Thereafter Funeral Services

Together this panel spans the full arc of regenerative thinking, from the ecological economics of climate innovation to the human-centred design of how we experience endings. It promises to be a conversation that challenges assumptions, opens new possibilities, and offers something genuinely useful to take away.

Our relationship with death has been in great discussion with program - if you’ve not already been listening I highly recommend taking the time to do so. It’s a delight these conversations are being had so publicly.

Please join us

Free webinar
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