18/09/2026
When people talk about autistic literal thinking, they often use examples such as taking “it’s raining cats and dogs” literally.
For me, it’s usually much subtler than that.
It can mean hearing “we’ve agreed that you’ll do this” and assuming that means I should go away and do it. Then discovering that everyone else understood an unspoken process involving another email, a conversation with someone else and possibly another meeting first to check everyone is happy before the thing is done.
The words made sense. The social context surrounding them was where the meaning became less clear.
And once I realise I may have missed something, the second-guessing begins. Have I done the wrong thing? What was I supposed to understand? What will everyone think now?
Clear, explicit communication makes such a difference. If there are steps before the thing, please tell me what they are. Otherwise, there is a fairly good chance I’ll toddle off and do exactly what we agreed.