19/08/2026
Kudos to the legend that is Ruby Wax OBE for explaining how depression feels to an absolute tee. You shared my story about it too- thank you Ruby❤️❤️! By being open about your struggles, you are helping fellow sufferers of this debilitating disease and educating others- no mean feat. There’s still so much stigma and ignorance sadly 🧠😢.
Having been hospitalised, and having had suicidal depression twice which nearly took my life and temporarily stole my 🧠, my personality, my 💓 and soul🪽, I can relate to that feeling of a demonic possession. It’s not a bad day, it’s not feeling low, you can’t cheer up, you aren’t choosing to be self-obsessed, attention-seeking or being a nuisance deliberately, your brain is irrevocably broken, chronically inflamed, neurotransmitters misfiring. You don’t expect people to run with a broken leg🦵🧠. But we expect depressed people to pull themselves together. No thank you- that’s shameful 😩. But it’s often the reality of others’ reactions to what many of us have faced with this pernicious disease. Be kind, it’s everything 🧚♂️. Especially in a world where we abandon, humiliate, condemn or torment our fellow humans regardless of their vulnerabilities and beautiful sensibilities. The utterly tragic cases of the gentle Jason Arday and the wonderfully effervescent Caroline Flack sadly spring to mind 😢.
Depression might be invisible, you might look well but that doesn’t make the experience better. Don’t judge it’s cruel.