05/03/2026
Unpopular opinion?.. Why simply 'ticking the box' to hire a Mental Coach could screw up your entire season.
I've seen it happen. It's a requirement to fill 'the role.'
But do we even know what a mental coach is? What they do? How they integrate?
"Yeah Elle' we do... you do the mindset mental health stuff! Obviously" 😉
Obviously not, and we're about to set everyone up for failure, including the Mental Coach. Here's why 👇
🚩 No clear purpose: Sessions feel vague and disconnected from what's actually happening within the context of the season/team
🚩 Poor integration: When it's seen as a bolt-on, not part of the team and woven into daily practice— it causes mixed messages to everyone
🚩 Stigma grows: When players are sent/encouraged only for “problems” - it sends the message that mental training= for "weak people/moments" (tell that to the olympians 👀)
🚩 Wasted trust: Forced conversations with low buy-in kills engagement fast 📉
🚩 Leaders step back: “The Mental Coach will sort it” replaces real leadership and coach/player connection
Okay now I'll tell you why you ACTUALLY need a Mental Coach 👇
Mental performance coaches can help purposefully and pro-actively design and reinforce a culture of high performance.. Not a glass house, a structure for SUSTAINED excellence. Working with coaches on how the culture soaks into behaviour, standards, communication, training sessions, etc. etc. Leader support all the way through player empowerment and everything in between.
The role, including where time and energy are most utilised, can look different team to team. And that's where (especially when it's a brand new role being integrated) it can be kind of...
Confusing? Scary? Overwhelming?
I get it! I'd feel that way too. So genuinely, those in my network (and beyond) please feel free to reach out and I'm happy to help!
The point here is that the value a Certified Mental Performance Coach can bring, is down to your ability to do it PURPOSEFULLY. Set everyone up for success 📈 It's worth your time in the short term and long term.
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👋 Hi I'm Elle', your Mental Performance Specialist
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