28/08/2026
For an anxious child, going back to school does not begin on the first morning back.
It can begin days before.
You might notice more questions, difficulty sleeping, irritability, stomach aches, wanting to stay close to you, or sometimes almost no outward reaction at all.
Anticipation can be stressful in its own right, which is why the week before school is a good time to think about what can stay predictable.
Keep routines as steady as you can. Talk through what they already know. Be honest about what you do not know. Make space for worries without immediately trying to talk them out of them.
Sometimes “I don’t know exactly how it will go, but I’ll be here with you through it” is much more reassuring than “you’ll be fine.”
And keep an eye on the quieter children too. Anxiety is not always loud.