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Tina Gray Therapy

Leading Hypnotherapist & Mindset Coach: Former Head Trainer, Transforming Lives for Success & Fulfilment. With a background in training over 16,000 therapists

With 24 impactful years entrenched in the corporate landscape, my journey has been defined by the crucible of high-pressure investment banking. This path has not only honed my resilience but also afforded me a profound understanding of the intricate dance between thriving professionally and living a balanced life. Despite my triumphs in this demanding realm, it was through a personal odyssey of se

lf-discovery that I realized my true potential and my calling to guide others on a similar transformative journey. My own therapeutic process illuminated a path to help others uncover their authentic selves buried beneath layers of fear, self-doubt, and self-sabotage. Learning from Marisa Peer, the pioneering force behind Rapid Transformational Therapy, I ventured into the realm of the subconscious to rewrite narratives born from scars, negativity, and trauma. Trained directly by Marisa Peer herself, I then took on the role of head trainer at her school, where I trained over 16,000 students in her method globally. After eight years in this role, while running my own busy practice, I embarked on another leap of faith. I trained as a Napoleon Hill Institute coach and have won four awards for the work I've done in this field. I've been featured in Women's Own and Channel 5 "when diets go horribly wrong". My passion for facilitating change and empowerment is unwavering, and I believe anything is possible. In the words of Napoleon Hill, "What the mind can conceive, it can achieve."

17/06/2026

Mile 58. Why do women stay? 💜

A trauma bond forms when fear and attachment fire at the same time. The brain pairs relief with the very person who caused the harm — until that relief gets mistaken for love.

It isn’t weak willpower. It’s neuroscience — survival wiring her brain built to keep her alive.

If this explains something you’ve lived, or someone you love, save this and share it.

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13/06/2026

I just wanted to jump on and say thank you to everyone who has donated so far. I am so, so grateful.

Last night I sat and read through the page where all the women running this challenge were asked to write who they were running for. I wasn’t prepared for what I read.

The rawness. The pain. What some of these women are going through right now. What they’ve survived. Lives lost. Because behind every statistic is a real woman, a real family, a real life shattered.

347 domestic abuse-linked deaths recorded in England and Wales last year. 137 women and girls killed every single day worldwide by the person who was supposed to love them.

The person who is supposed to be your safe place. Your home. And instead they become the thing you are most afraid of.

Women stay not because they are weak. But because trauma bonds rewire your sense of reality. Because leaving feels more dangerous than staying. Because shame, isolation and financial control have stripped away every exit route.

These women are not victims. They are survivors.

That is why Refuge matters. One safe night. One door open when every other door is closed.

£25 provides food, toiletries and essentials for a family arriving at a refuge with absolutely nothing. If you’ve been thinking about donating, please do it today. Because for someone out there, today is the day they finally find the courage to leave.

Be the reason she had somewhere to go.

🔗 Link to donate

https://www.justgiving.com/page/tina-gray-2?utm_medium=FR&utm_source=CL&utm_campaign=lc_frp_share_transaction_transactional_--_donation_received_--_nth_donation&utm_content=link_in_bio

Every pound is a lifeline.

💜 Mile 45 of 100. Eastbourne seafront, let’s go.

04/06/2026

“It’s just the way I am.”

How many times have you said that to yourself?

Science disagrees.

Your brain is not fixed. It can rewire itself through new thoughts, new habits, and new experiences - at any stage of life.

This is called neuroplasticity. And it might be the most hopeful thing science has ever told us.

Every thought you repeat becomes a neural pathway.
Every belief you hold gets reinforced by the brain that holds it.
Every pattern you run - the anxiety, the self-doubt, the shutting down, the people pleasing - is simply a pathway that’s been used so many times it became automatic.

And automatic can be changed.

The patterns running your life weren’t chosen by you as an adult. They were programmed before you were seven — through fear, rejection, criticism, and love.

Your subconscious turned those experiences into rules:
“Stay small. Don’t trust. You’re not enough. It’s not safe to be seen.”

That’s why willpower alone doesn’t work.
That’s why you can want to change and still feel stuck.

You’re not fighting a bad habit. You’re up against a program your brain has been protecting for decades.

But programs can be rewritten. 🧠

You are not hardwired to struggle.
You just haven’t rewired yet.

💬 What’s one belief about yourself you’ve always accepted as true - but part of you has always questioned?

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30/05/2026

If you’ve been stuck in the same patterns for years - this might be why.

I’m Tina, and what I do is hard to explain at a dinner party. 😅

I don’t just help people feel better. I help them understand why they’ve felt the way they have - sometimes for decades - and then we change it at the root.

✦ The anxiety that never fully goes away
✦ The patterns that keep repeating no matter how hard you try
✦ The feeling that something is holding you back but you can’t name it

My work is grounded in neuroscience and mindset reprogramming. We don’t scratch the surface - we go to where the belief was formed and rewire it there.

Because most of what drives your behaviour, emotions and beliefs was locked in before you were even 7 years old.

And until you address what’s underneath, real change won’t stick.

I’ve lived this. I know what it feels like to be trapped in cycles you didn’t choose. And I know what it feels like when something finally shifts.

That shift is what I’ve dedicated my life to creating for others.

If something here resonates - you’re in the right place. 🤍

Drop a 🙋 below if any of this sounds familiar.

26/05/2026

How I can help…

91% of workers experienced high or extreme stress last year. Third year running that number hasn’t moved.
If you’re one of them - you already know why.
Here’s what stunned me from the Mental Health UK’s Burnout Report 2026:

27% of people who took time off for burnout received zero support on their return. Only 17% had a recovery plan.
They send people home to recover, then bring them back to the same environment that broke them down.
So what do you do when you know it won’t change?

You change what you can control.

Your nervous system. Your thinking patterns. Your capacity to cope.

Burnout doesn’t need your employer to get it right. It resolves when the support goes deep enough regardless of what’s happening around you.
In a recent pilot, my approach delivered measurable results within 21 days:

↓ 71% reduction in anxiety, stress and depression
↓ 81% reduction in disengagement
↓ 66% reduction in fatigue
↓ 79% reduction in negative self-beliefs
↓ 80% reduction in fear and panic

Not managed. Not masked. Measurably reduced. Even in environments that hadn’t changed.
If you’re exhausted, stuck, and wondering how much longer you can keep going - DM me.

Let’s talk about what’s actually possible.

24/05/2026

We talk about mental health more than ever. But fewer people are actually getting help.

And honestly? That stat hit me.

The Rula 2026 State of Mental Health Report just confirmed it - access to care dropped this year, even as awareness keeps rising.

So many people know something’s off. They’re just not sure what to do next.

Here’s what I actually see shift things - in my work and in my own life:

1️⃣ Decide to move through it, not just understand it
Insight without action keeps you stuck in your head.

2️⃣ Your mind can’t think its way out of this
Anxiety, avoidance, emotional blocks - these live in the body and subconscious, not in your logic.

3️⃣ Safety has to be felt, not just understood
Breathwork, somatic work, hypnotherapy - they create change that conversation alone can’t always reach.

4️⃣ Stop waiting for the perfect moment
There isn’t one. Five minutes of stillness today does more than waiting until things get worse.

The people who shift fastest aren’t the ones who understand their pain the most.

They’re the ones who finally decided to do something different.

Which one resonates with where you’re at right now? 👇

🔗 Full article: aol.com/articles/5-mental-health-trends-2026

11/05/2026

The Sunday Scaries hit differently when you’re a working parent.

And the one thing making it worse?
The double weight nobody talks about.

It’s not just the dread of your own Monday. It’s the weight of preparing everyone else for theirs too.

➡️ Lunches to pack.
➡️ Uniforms to iron.
➡️ Homework to chase.
➡️ Work emails sitting unread.
And that familiar knot in your stomach — already forming.

Then comes the guilt.

Not present enough at home on the weekend. Not prepared enough for work on Monday.
No version of yourself ever feels like enough.
The exhaustion doesn’t clock off.

It follows you into Monday. Into Tuesday. Into every relationship, every quiet moment where you finally stop and realise how depleted you actually are.
It affects your identity.
It affects your relationships.
It affects your mental health in ways so gradual you don’t notice until you’re already running on empty.
That knot in your stomach is your nervous system telling you the load has become unsustainable.

As a therapist, here are my top tips for working parents:

1️⃣ Reframe Sunday as the end, not the beginning
↳ Treating Sunday as the start of the week triggers anticipatory anxiety.
↳ Reframing it as the last day of your weekend shifts your nervous system out of threat mode.

2️⃣ The worry window
↳ Set aside 10 minutes on Sunday afternoon to write your worries, then close the notebook.
↳ Your brain stops spiralling when it knows its concerns have been acknowledged.

3️⃣ Regulate your nervous system
↳ Box breathing, a short walk, even five minutes of stillness.
↳ You cannot think your way out of a stress response. You have to move through it physically.

4️⃣ The good enough audit
↳ Name three things you did well as a parent and three things you did well at work this week.
↳ The anxious brain fixates on gaps. This rewires what your subconscious takes into Monday.
You cannot pour from an empty cup.
And working parents deserve more than just surviving the week.

💬 Which of these resonates most with you right now? Drop it in the comments - I read every one.

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