Abigail Ruffy IBCLC

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Abigail Ruffy IBCLC

Hello! My name is Abigail
I am an IBCLC accredited lactation consultant and midwife based in Kent

27/10/2026

A little hello from me.

It's been a little quieter around here lately while I've been finding my feet in my NHS role and balancing all the different parts of life.

But breastfeeding support is still very much something I'm passionate about.

Whether you're expecting your first baby, navigating those early weeks, struggling with feeding, wondering about pumping or simply needing someone to talk things through with, you deserve support that listens to you and your baby.

As an IBCLC, I love helping families find a way of feeding that feels right for them — without judgement, pressure or the expectation that breastfeeding has to look a particular way.

I'll be sharing more practical advice, reassurance and little reminders that you don't have to figure everything out alone.

I'd love to hear from you, too.

What's one thing you wish you'd known about breastfeeding before having your baby?

Abi x

02/08/2026

✨ World Breastfeeding Week ✨

This week we celebrate breastfeeding in all its forms—the joy, the challenges, the learning, and the resilience.

Behind every breastfeeding journey is a parent doing their very best. Whether you're exclusively breastfeeding, combination feeding, expressing, using donor milk, or navigating unexpected changes, you deserve support without judgement.

Breastfeeding is a learned skill for both parent and baby, and no one should have to figure it out alone.

If you're struggling, please reach out. Sometimes a small change can make a huge difference.

Happy World Breastfeeding Week to every family on their own unique feeding journey.

27/07/2026

Breastfeeding was never meant to happen in isolation.

When we see other mothers feeding, share our experiences, and feel supported, we're more likely to continue our breastfeeding journey. Research consistently shows that mothers who have access to peer support and a supportive community are more likely to breastfeed for longer.

Every feed in the park, at a café, or at a baby group helps normalise breastfeeding and reminds another mum that she's not alone.

Let's build communities where feeding is seen, supported and celebrated.

17/07/2026

Wow... our pilot Matrescence Circle is now fully booked!

I honestly can't thank you enough for the incredible response. It means so much to know that so many mums are looking for a space where they can slow down, connect, be heard, and feel supported.

This is just the beginning, and I can't wait to welcome everyone who has booked. Thank you to everyone who has shared, liked, and encouraged this new project—it really does make a difference.

If you missed out, don't worry. I'll be running more circles soon, so keep an eye on this page for future dates.

Here's to building a village where no mother has to do it alone.

10/07/2026

Breastfeeding support isn't just about solving today's challenge—it's about giving you the knowledge and confidence to understand why things are happening.

I'm currently creating a visual teaching aid for a family who are worried about reflux and vomiting after feeds. Every family is different, so I tailor my support and resources to their individual needs.

When you work with me, you don't just receive practical breastfeeding support—you gain education, understanding, and the tools to make informed decisions long after our appointment has finished.

I'm excited to share a video of this teaching aid in action very soon. 💛

09/07/2026

Have you experienced Neonatal care as a neurodivergent parent? We would love to hear your experience. See the poster below 👇 The link to the survey will be in the comments on this post 💌

09/07/2026

I'M BACK!

Did you miss me? 😅

I've been a little quiet while I took some much-needed time to recover from burnout. Sometimes even the people who spend their lives caring for others need to stop and refill their own cup.

I'm feeling so much more like myself, and I'm excited to be back supporting families, talking all things breastfeeding, and sharing more of what I love.

My booking calendar is now open if you'd like breastfeeding support.
The next Matrescence Picnic is coming soon—watch this space!

Thank you for sticking around while I took a breather. Now... tell me, what have I missed?!

10/05/2026

13 years ago, I trained as a breastfeeding supporter with one simple hope — to help mothers feel supported, informed and confident in feeding their babies.

Today, I’m a lactation consultant and a midwife, supporting families through some of the most transformative moments of their lives.

It hasn’t always been easy, but this journey reminds me that dreams really do grow slowly, quietly, and steadily over time.

To every parent navigating feeding, newborn life and matrescence — you are not alone.

And to anyone sitting on a dream that feels far away right now: keep going. Dreams come true.

05/05/2026

I haven’t been as active on here lately… but there’s a reason for that 🤍

My work has been quietly expanding in a way that feels really aligned — moving beyond just breastfeeding support into supporting mothers through the full transition into motherhood, known as Matrescence.

Because feeding is never just feeding. It sits within everything else a mother is carrying — identity shifts, emotions, expectations, relationships, and becoming someone new while still being you.

Alongside this, I also continue to work as a clinical midwife, which keeps me closely connected to the realities of how varied every mother and baby journey can be.

Breastfeeding support is still a core part of what I do, and I’m still here for you if you need reassurance, guidance, or someone to talk things through with. You’re always welcome to message me or book in.

Very soon, I’ll also be offering a mother & baby group with free breastfeeding support — a gentle space to connect, ask questions, and feel held in those early weeks and months.

I’ll share more details soon, but for now, I just want to say thank you for being here.

Abigail x

29/04/2026

Most people assume once you qualify, that’s it… but that’s not the case for IBCLC lactation consultants.

We revalidate every 5 years—completing ongoing education, keeping up with research, and continually developing our practice so the support you receive is current and evidence-based.

I’ve recently attended a 2-day conference on the microbiome and infant feeding (and I have more learning planned over the coming months), because this work matters to me.

Breastfeeding support isn’t static.
And neither am I.

If you’re looking for support you can trust, I’m here .

Save this for when you need support later, and feel free to share with another mum who might need it too.

Address

Margate

Website

http://www.breastfeedingwithabigail.co.uk/

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