Better Me Better Us

Better Me Better Us Haley and Vicki have 40+ years of working locally, nationally and internationally supporting individuals, families, LAs and private companies.

It’s that time of the month again…our latest podcast is now out 🎙️ Episode 37 - EndingsThis month, we’re talking about c...
09/06/2026

It’s that time of the month again…our latest podcast is now out 🎙️

Episode 37 - Endings

This month, we’re talking about change and endings. Whether planned or unexpected, transitions such as leaving school, saying goodbye to trusted adults, or changes at home can have a big impact on children and young people.

👂🏼 https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-adoption-and-fostering-podcast/id1164600703?i=1000771814172

As always you can connect with us through the following -
Website- www.bettermebetterus.co.uk
Instagram- BMBUltd
Facebook – Better Me Better Us
Email – [email protected]

07/06/2026

Caring for children with complex and challenging behaviour can be exhausting and relentless. We meet every Monday on Zoom. No pressure or expectations, just listen or join in.

It's a safe place awe ask that folks complete the attached form to ensure that.

WwF joining form
https://forms.office.com/e/drdn16BLZ2

You can also join the Walking with Families - Adoptive parents living with group

29/05/2026

There’s scant help — and loads of blame — for parents whose children hit them, kick them, and even threaten their lives.

Happy Friday☀️We hope everyone’s had a great (short) working week and managed to enjoy some sunshine!We’ve wrapped up th...
29/05/2026

Happy Friday☀️

We hope everyone’s had a great (short) working week and managed to enjoy some sunshine!

We’ve wrapped up the week with a sunny beach walk, a good catch-up, plenty of reflections (as always!), and planning for next month’s podcast.

It’s always great to get outdoors, reset, and spend time in good company.

Wishing everyone a relaxing and positive weekend.

Before children learn from what we say, they learn from how we live. Our behavior becomes their blueprint.The first step...
28/05/2026

Before children learn from what we say, they learn from how we live. Our behavior becomes their blueprint.

The first step is working on ourselves and owning our actions and behaviour.

NEW PODCAST EPISODE OUT NOW 🎙️ Podcast 36 - Are we connected or disconnected? In a fast-paced world where we have an inc...
12/05/2026

NEW PODCAST EPISODE OUT NOW 🎙️

Podcast 36 - Are we connected or disconnected?

In a fast-paced world where we have an increasing number of connections, how meaningful are our relationships really?

This episode explores the contradiction of being more digitally connected than ever whilst feeling increasingly disconnected as humans. From social media and boundaries to unsafe relationships, and the impact on young people’s social skills, we reflect on what real human connection looks like in today’s world.

🎧 https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-adoption-and-fostering-podcast/id1164600703?i=1000767326585

As always you can connect with us through the following -
Website- www.bettermebetterus.co.uk
Instagram- BMBUltd
Facebook – Better Me Better Us
Email – [email protected]

As a therapeutic parent, you often feel like a detective.Every behaviour your child shows is a clue, a message, a way of...
07/05/2026

As a therapeutic parent, you often feel like a detective.

Every behaviour your child shows is a clue, a message, a way of communicating something they may not have the words for.

It might be fear, anxiety, shame or a need for connection. What looks tlike defiance or withdrawal can often be a protective strategy.

When you pause and look beyond the surface, you’re not just managing behaviour you’re building trust, safety and healing.

Full School Training: See Your Students Through a Trauma-Informed LensHalf or Full Inset Day AvailableUnlock the potenti...
05/05/2026

Full School Training: See Your Students Through a Trauma-Informed Lens

Half or Full Inset Day Available

Unlock the potential of every child by equipping your staff with the knowledge and skills to respond to trauma with confidence and care.

This training will help your team to:

Understand emotional regulation and how dysregulation can appear in the classroom and during unstructured times like break and lunch.

Recognise signs of distress and respond with co-regulation strategies that help children return to a calm, safe state ready to learn.

Gain insight into attachment patterns and how they show up in school life.

Explore the social, emotional, and psychological impact of trauma, including how it can play out in relationships.

Recognise and manage vicarious trauma for staff supporting traumatised children.

Equip your team with practical strategies to foster both student well-being and a resilient, supported workforce.

Why it matters
After working with children and young people for years, we understand the value of everyone in a child’s life understanding the impact of their trauma. When the adults around them see their behaviour as communication and survival responses, we can better support children to feel safe, regulated, and ready to engage in learning—helping them to thrive both academically and emotionally.

Why Better Me Better Us?
With over 40 years of experience, we know that when staff feel confident and supported, children thrive. Our training is practical, evidence-based, and tailored to meet the unique needs of your school community.

Contact us to learn more about our training and how we can support your school.

05/05/2026

When you ban screens as a consequence, it can feel like the quickest way to 'make the lesson stick'.

But for many young people (especially ND children), screens are a regulating tool — so removing them often ramps up overwhelm rather than reducing the behaviour.

Today’s post looks at why screen bans tend to backfire and what actually supports learning and regulation instead.

Check an eye out for our post on natural and logical consequences, it will help to explain why consequences that don’t match the behaviour rarely lead to meaningful change.

For details of a free download, see footer of visual.

We were absolutely buzzing to receive this fantastic feedback from New Key Support after delivering two half-day safegua...
22/04/2026

We were absolutely buzzing to receive this fantastic feedback from New Key Support after delivering two half-day safeguarding sessions

We always aim to make our training meaningful, practical, and genuinely useful for every team we work with and it’s great to see that reflected in their experience.

If you’re interested in how we can support your team, drop us a message or email us at [email protected]

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