Mindset By Dave

Mindset By Dave Mental health and mindset coaching. 1 to1 via video call. Offering a free session to 365 people per year as part of a project called A Life A Day

19/09/2026

What a failed cry for help taught me.

In 2009 I put a cry for help on social media and no one responded.

17 years later I’m sharing the lesson I learned from that moment and how this could save so many people when they hit rock bottom.

14/09/2026

Don’t get revenge on the wrong people!

Or better yet don’t bother yourself with the need for revenge. It will only eat you up!

Today is world su***de prevention day. Every day should be the perfect day to check in on those you love. Or to reach ou...
10/09/2026

Today is world su***de prevention day.

Every day should be the perfect day to check in on those you love. Or to reach out if you are the person in need.

17 years ago I put a needy “I need a hug” post on Facebook and no one responded.

What I should have done is messaged one person directly and said “I need you”

That’s a mistake I have learned from. When you reach out to “anyone” then “everyone” thinks that “someone” will respond and so “no-one” does.

Please look after yourself and those around you.

Today and every day. 💝

09/09/2026

Have a break. Get to a new country. Take in the culture. Be inspired.

This trip has been wonderful but it’s been about family.

In fact I had to stop the youngest (2) from waking up the eldest (21) whilst trying to write this exact caption! 😂

03/09/2026

What’s the most interesting thing about you? And what do people think it is?

I love this little discrepancy because what we find interesting about ourself might not what other people do. And vice versa.

26/08/2026

My inner voice is loud and relentless.

So when I found out that many people don’t have one I just couldn’t get my head around it! I mean… it sounds peaceful!

Are you one of those people? And if so what do you have in place of an in er monologue?

17 years ago today I tried to take my own life. I thought I had nothing left to give. Here’s the story of how I was wron...
24/08/2026

17 years ago today I tried to take my own life.

I thought I had nothing left to give. Here’s the story of how I was wrong.

I won’t write too much here. As there’s a LOT of words on the images. 😇

What I will say is even though I have faced the darkness since. I am SO happy to be here. 💝

24/08/2026

Comparison is the thief of joy. But what about perspective?

The reason comparison steals our joy is because we always compare in a way where we come out worse. It’s like you could be 4th in a race of 6000 people and be jealous of the 3 that are ahead.

Perspective is different. You can notice the bad, but you have to notice the good too. And ultimately you will realise that where you put your energy dictates a whole lot of how you feel.

When you switch comparison for perspective you swap jealousy for inspiration.

I know which one I’d rather be feeling on a daily basis. 💝

23/08/2026

My issue with “cringe comedy”.

Let me know if this affects you too!

22/08/2026

When you charge low, people assume you’re not very good…

This is the problem I face all the time. And sales coaches, business coaches and even PR agents over the years have told me

“You need to charge more!”

And look for corporate I charge what I’m worth. It pays my bills.

But if I’m hosting an event myself I run them for a low price, or even sometimes free.

And I have one explanation for why I do that.

My mantra is “be the person you needed when you were younger”.

I live a very privileged middle class life nowadays in West Lancashire. But that was not who I was when I was younger.

I grew up in Anfield in Liverpool. My dad had left and was paying my mum £40 a MONTH in child maintenance. For 2 of us!

Then my mum was made redundant. The car was repossessed in front of every one of our neighbours. Unashamedly watching either through those lovely late 80 net curtains or simply stood outside their terraced houses.

This became the talk of my school. And whilst I was already being bullied for having thick NHS glasses and being a bit nerdy, I was now piled on for being poor.

This is the environment my mental health journey was born in. So forgive me if I choose to never forget that. And price my online talks so as not to exclude low income families.

My next event is for parents, carers or teachers who are concerned about risk taking behaviours in the young people in their lives.

It’s priced under £10 and I even do a further discount through my mailing list.

I KNOW my work is worth more than that. But I also know that YOU and your child are worth more than that too.

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