08/07/2026
I didn't become a therapist because I had all the answers. 🤍
I became a therapist because, for a long time, I was the person searching for them.
As a teenager and into my early twenties, I struggled with anxiety, self-doubt, and a lack of confidence.
I knew there had to be something driving it all... I just didn't know what it was, or how to change it.
I remember sitting in university lectures and my heart would race, my mind would spiral, and I'd try to hide the panic attack I could feel building inside me.
Sometimes it became too much, and I'd quickly leave the lecture theatre just to escape the feeling. Then I'd spend the rest of the day feeling like I'd failed, dreading the next lecture, wondering if it would happen all over again.
As I got older, my anxiety developed into OCD tendencies. My mind was constantly searching for certainty and reassurance and it was exhausting. Then came another story I began to believe... that I wasn't good enough.
Despite having a degree in psychology and always dreaming of becoming a therapist, I convinced myself I wasn't capable of making that dream a reality. That it was too late, so in the comfort zone I stayed.
Looking back now, I can see that anxiety had quietly become the narrator of my life. Constantly holding me back. It was time for this to change and I looked for support. I discovered Solution Focused Hypnotherapy.
For the first time, I began to understand what my brain was doing... and more importantly, why. I stopped seeing anxiety as something I needed to fight or get rid of. Instead, I learned how to work with my brain, rather than against it.
That experience didn't just change my mental wellbeing. It changed the direction of my life. I stopped letting anxiety decide what was possible for me. I got out of my own way. And I retrained as a therapist in the very approach that changed my life and that I knew would help change the lives of others.
Today, I have the privilege of helping people understand themselves with more compassion, reconnect with the person anxiety has been hiding, and realise they are capable of so much more than anxiety has led them to believe.
The girl who used to leave university lectures because she was having a panic attack... now stands in front of groups talking about the brain, anxiety and hope, and now says yes to opportunities that once would have terrified her.
If you'd asked me five years ago whether I'd be doing any of this, I would have smiled and said, "No way” - but all of that disbelief has changed now. I no longer run from that fear, I step towards it.
Do I still feel nervous sometimes? Of course! But it no longer gets to hold me back. I share my story because someone reading this might recognise a little of themselves in it... and realise they're not alone.
Because if there's one thing my own journey has taught me, it's this...
Life really can become better than you ever imagined possible!
And if you're reading this and wondering whether things could ever feel different for you... please know that they can.
This is why I do what I do. So others can discover that anxiety doesn't have to write the rest of their story, and you can be free to be the person who was hidden behind that anxiety.
Love,
Stephanie x 🦋