DeVernon Psychotherapy

DeVernon Psychotherapy 🧠 Karen Vernon | CBT Therapist
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🔗 Thrive Therapy Academy Our app and expert-led program provide personalised support, CBT techniques, and a supportive community to help manage menopause symptoms. We offer expert guidance from qualified professionals, personalised symptom tracking, and a holistic approach to well-being that addresses both the physical and emotional challenges of menopause. Our community forum provides a safe space to connect with other women, share experiences, and find encouragement. We also offer a wealth of resources, including articles, videos, and expert advice on a range of menopause-related topics. Take control of your menopause journey with Menopause Masters. Download our app or visit our website today!

☀️ **Why does hot weather feel so much harder during perimenopause and menopause?**With temperatures across parts of the...
25/06/2026

☀️ **Why does hot weather feel so much harder during perimenopause and menopause?**

With temperatures across parts of the UK expected to reach 31–37°C this week, many women may find themselves feeling more exhausted, irritable, overwhelmed or anxious than usual.

And it’s not “just the heat.”

During perimenopause and menopause, fluctuating and declining oestrogen levels can affect the body’s temperature regulation system.

This means the brain can become more sensitive to changes in temperature, making women more vulnerable to:

• Hot flushes and night sweats
• Sleep disruption
• Fatigue
• Brain fog
• Increased irritability
• Anxiety and overwhelm

From a psychotherapeutic perspective, it’s important to remember that our emotional wellbeing is closely connected to our physical state.

When the body is working hard to cool itself, sleep is disrupted, and energy levels are depleted, our ability to cope with everyday stressors can be reduced.

As a result, challenges that normally feel manageable may suddenly feel much harder.

What I often remind women is this:

If you’re feeling more emotional, anxious, overwhelmed or exhausted during periods of extreme heat, it doesn’t mean you’re failing to cope.

It may simply mean your body is already working harder than usual.

💜 A simple strategy that can help:

Instead of expecting yourself to maintain your usual pace, try asking:

“What would a compassionate version of today look like?”

Perhaps it’s:
• Taking more breaks
• Reducing non-essential tasks
• Drinking more water
• Moving exercise to cooler parts of the day
• Prioritising rest and recovery
• Lowering expectations temporarily

Self-compassion is not giving up.

It’s responding wisely to what your body needs.

💜 How does hot weather affect you during perimenopause or menopause?

I’d love to hear your experiences.

A gentle reminder this Father’s Day: not everyone experiences today in the same way. 💜For some, Father’s Day is filled w...
21/06/2026

A gentle reminder this Father’s Day: not everyone experiences today in the same way. 💜

For some, Father’s Day is filled with gratitude and celebration.

For others, it may bring grief, longing, unresolved feelings, difficult memories, estrangement, or reminders of relationships that were painful or complicated.

My own father is no longer with us, and our relationship was complex. Like many people, my feelings about today are not simple.

At the same time, I feel fortunate to witness the kind of father my husband has been to our children—present, loving, supportive and deeply committed.

As a therapist, I’ve learned that two truths can exist at once. We can hold sadness and gratitude. Loss and appreciation. Pain and love.

If today feels difficult, please remember:
💜 Your feelings are valid.
💜 You don’t need to compare your experience to anyone else’s.
💜 Mixed emotions are often a sign of being human, not of being broken.

Take care of yourself today, whatever Father’s Day means for you.

SelfCompassion

13/06/2026
06/06/2026

Are you waking at 3am with your mind racing?

Feeling anxious, overwhelmed, exhausted, or like you've somehow become a stranger to yourself?

You're not imagining it.

Perimenopause and menopause don't just affect your hormones.

They affect your sleep, confidence, concentration, emotions, relationships, and daily life.

As a BABCP Accredited CBT Psychotherapist, I've spent years helping women understand what's happening beneath the symptoms—and more importantly, what to do about it.

That's why I created Menopause Masters®️.

A clinical, evidence-based programme designed to help you:

✨ Calm anxiety and overthinking
✨ Improve sleep and reduce 3am wake-ups
✨ Manage brain fog and overwhelm
✨ Regulate your nervous system
✨ Rebuild confidence and emotional resilience
✨ Create a personalised roadmap for thriving beyond menopause

Because menopause isn't something you simply survive.

It's something you can master.

💗 Ready to move from coping to thriving?

Tap the link in my bio to learn more.

👇 What's been your biggest menopause challenge?

29/05/2026

Is it anxiety... or is your body playing tricks on you? 🌊👇

If you’ve ever felt a sudden wave of intense panic, a racing heart, or a feeling of impending doom out of nowhere, your immediate thought is probably: “I’m having a panic attack.”

But for women in perimenopause and menopause, there might be a completely different culprit at play: A Physiological Spike.

🔍 What’s the difference?
A Panic Attack: Often triggered by cognitive stress, psychological factors, or deeper-rooted anxiety. It’s an emotional and psychological response that floods the body.

A Physiological Spike: Driven strictly by hormonal fluctuations (like sudden drops in estrogen or surges in cortisol/adrenaline). Your body experiences the physical symptoms of panic first, tricking your brain into thinking you are anxious.

When your body spikes, your mind scrambles to find a reason why, leading to a vicious cycle of physical symptoms and mental anxiety.

Stopping this cycle starts with understanding exactly what your body is doing.

Take the Quiz: To see where you land, and take The Anxiety Audit to get a clearer picture of your nervous system.

🔗 Click the link in our bio to take the full audit today.

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