Wings Of Love

Wings Of Love Trauma-informed therapy-Evidence Based & Holistic. I'm Jolene Choy, a Trauma-Informed Therapist and Holistic Healing Practitioner.
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Supporting women, children & teens seeking emotional wellbeing and authentic growth. 🪷EMDR · Sand Tray · FC · Compassion Inquiry · Past Life Regression
In-person (Klang) & Online
đź“©+014 313 8265 I support women, children and teens to release old wounds, gain clarity, restore emotional wellbeing, discover their life purpose and rebuild self-confidence. I integrate evidence-based and holistic approac

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🌱 EMDR & Somatic-Based Therapy
🎨 Sand Tray Therapy & Art Therapy
👪 Family Constellation
🌸 Compassion Inquiry Approach
✨ Reiki & Past Life Regression
🎼 Sound Healing

I also teach courses and workshops to empower others in their healing journey, including:

Reiki (Levels 1, 2, Master & Teacher), World Peace Holy Fire®️111 Karuna Reiki®️
Sound Healing & Emotional Wellness workshops
Nagomi Art Therapy

I belief every individual has the innate capacity to heal and return to their authentic self. What they often need is awareness, understanding and self-compassion to reconnect with their inner strength and begin their journey of healing.

đź“© WhatsApp 014-3138265 to enquire or book a session or register for courses. Wings & Love Holistic Wellness Services
SSM Number : 202403272469 (PG0562017-H)

Are you living today or are you preparing for tomorrow’s storm? 🌧️For some people, overthinking isn’t simply a habit.It ...
30/07/2026

Are you living today or are you preparing for tomorrow’s storm? 🌧️

For some people, overthinking isn’t simply a habit.

It became a way to survive.

When you grow up in an unpredictable environment, your nervous system learns to stay alert. You begin watching people’s facial expressions, tone of voice, silence, and behaviour trying to predict what might happen next.

It may have helped you avoid conflict, disappointment or emotional pain.

But years later, that same survival strategy can leave you constantly expecting the worst.

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“What if my boss is upset?”
“What if I’ve done something wrong?”
“What if they leave me?”
“What if something bad happens?”

Your mind isn’t trying to make life difficult.

For some people, it’s trying to keep them safe.

Healing doesn’t begin by forcing yourself to “stop overthinking.”

Healing begins with curiosity.

✨ What is my overthinking trying to protect me from?

Not every cloud becomes a storm.

You deserve to experience today without constantly preparing for tomorrow’s rain.

If this resonates with you, you don’t have to navigate it alone.

At Wings of Love, we provide a safe, compassionate and confidential space to explore the deeper patterns behind anxiety, overthinking and emotional survival. We help you to reconnect with yourself and regulate your nervous system.

📍 Bandar Botanic, Klang
đź’» In-person & Online Sessions
đź“© Message us to book your confidential appointment.

Did you grow up feeling like you had to be the “strong one”?Some children learn very early to comfort their parents, man...
24/07/2026

Did you grow up feeling like you had to be the “strong one”?

Some children learn very early to comfort their parents, manage conflict, hide their own emotions, or take responsibility for keeping the family together.

This experience is known as parentification.

From a Family Constellation perspective, healing begins when we recognise the natural order of the family.

Parents are “big,” and children are “small.”

This does not mean parents are perfect or children are less important.

It means life flows from parent to child.

Parents give.

Children receive.

When children take on the emotional role of caring for their parents, they may grow into adults who feel responsible for everyone, struggle to ask for help, and find it difficult to prioritise their own needs.

Returning your parents to their rightful place does not mean accepting abuse, denying your pain, or remaining in unhealthy relationships. It means recognising what belongs to them and what belongs to you.

It is about understanding the roles we learned, compassionately releasing what was never ours to carry, and allowing ourselves to receive the care, support and love we may have missed.

Sometimes, the most respectful thing we can do is return each person to their rightful place.

“You know that you are safe but so why does your body still react?”This is one of the questions I hear most often.Many p...
22/07/2026

“You know that you are safe but so why does your body still react?”

This is one of the questions I hear most often.

Many people believe healing is about changing their thoughts.

While our thoughts matter, trauma also affects how the nervous system responds to safety and danger.

That’s why you may understand that a situation is safe, yet still experience a racing heart, muscle tension, shallow breathing, or the urge to withdraw.

Your body isn’t working against you.

It’s responding in the way it learned to survive.

Healing isn’t about fighting your body.

It’s about helping your nervous system gradually experience safety again, so your mind and body can begin to work together instead of against each other.

One of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself is learning to reconnect with your body, not to judge it, but to listen to it with compassion.

Because healing isn’t just about understanding your story.

It’s about coming home to yourself.

Can someone else take your place and carry your pain, fear, sadness or emotions for you?Can someone else walk through yo...
17/07/2026

Can someone else take your place and carry your pain, fear, sadness or emotions for you?

Can someone else walk through your healing journey on your behalf?

The answer is No.

Others can guide you, support you, hold space for you and walk beside you.

A therapist can help you understand your patterns.
A safe relationship can help you feel supported.
A healing space can help you reconnect with yourself.

But no one can do the inner work in your place.

Healing does not mean you have to do everything alone. It means your participation matters.

You are the one who chooses to become aware of your body, emotions, feelings and return to yourself.

One of my favourite reminders:

“What happened to you was not your fault, but healing is your responsibility.”

You do not have to heal alone.
But the journey is yours. đź©·

📍 Trauma-informed therapy available in Klang and online.

Do you find yourself explaining even when no one asked?Over-explaining is often more than a habit.It can be a survival s...
10/07/2026

Do you find yourself explaining even when no one asked?

Over-explaining is often more than a habit.

It can be a survival strategy your nervous system learned after years of being misunderstood, criticised, blamed, judged, or treated unfairly.

Healing isn’t about saying less.

It’s about knowing you don’t have to earn understanding or justify your boundaries to feel safe.

💛 Your “No” is enough.

💛 Your worth doesn’t depend on other people’s approval.

If this resonates, take it as an invitation to become curious, not critical, about yourself.

📍 Trauma-informed therapy available in Klang and online.

People often admire the person who never complains, always helps others, and seems to have everything under control.But ...
04/07/2026

People often admire the person who never complains, always helps others, and seems to have everything under control.

But behind that strength, may be someone who learned very early that asking for help wasn’t safe.

Many trauma survivors become highly independent, not because they don’t need support, but because they grew up believing they had to handle everything alone.

Healing doesn’t mean becoming weak.

Healing means allowing yourself to receive support, set healthy boundaries, and realise that you don’t have to carry every burden alone.

You deserve support too. ❤️

📍 Bandar Botanic, Klang
đź’» In-Person & Online Sessions
đź“© DM us to book a confidential therapy session.

Do you constantly worry that the people you love will leave you?Maybe no one physically abandoned you.But if you grew up...
02/07/2026

Do you constantly worry that the people you love will leave you?

Maybe no one physically abandoned you.

But if you grew up feeling unseen, unheard, emotionally alone, or rejected, your nervous system may have learned that love isn’t secure.

You may find yourself:
• overthinking small changes
• needing constant reassurance
• saying “yes” when you want to say “no”
• putting others’ needs before your own
• losing yourself just to keep a relationship

These are not signs that you are “too much.”

They are often survival strategies developed to protect connection.

The good news is that these patterns can heal.

You can learn to feel safe within yourself, build healthy relationships, and love others without abandoning yourself.

If this resonates with you, I’d be honoured to walk alongside your healing journey.

📍 Bandar Botanic, Klang
đź’» In-Person & Online Sessions Available
đź“© Message us to book your appointment or
WhatsApp at +014 3138265 for appointment

What happened to you may explain your pain, but it doesn’t have to define your future.Many people spend years blaming th...
25/06/2026

What happened to you may explain your pain, but it doesn’t have to define your future.

Many people spend years blaming themselves for the way they think, feel, or react.

The truth is, your survival strategies were developed for a reason.

🌿 What happened to you is not your fault.

Healing isn’t about pretending the past didn’t happen. It’s about choosing to understand your story, reconnect with yourself, and create a healthier future.

Your healing is one of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself and the people you love.

đź’› If this message resonates with you, save this post as a reminder that healing is possible.

đź“© Follow for more trauma-informed education and support.

Happy Father’s Day 💙A father’s love is not always expressed through words.Sometimes it is shown through sacrifice, respo...
21/06/2026

Happy Father’s Day 💙

A father’s love is not always expressed through words.

Sometimes it is shown through sacrifice, responsibility, protection, and simply being present.

Today, we honour the fathers, grandfathers, father figures, and men who continue to show up for their families despite life’s challenges.

Thank you for your strength, love, guidance, and the impact you make in the lives of those who love you.

Wishing all fathers a meaningful and blessed Father’s Day. 🌿








Why does the same suffering keep repeating in a family?Sometimes the patterns we struggle with today may have deeper roo...
13/06/2026

Why does the same suffering keep repeating in a family?

Sometimes the patterns we struggle with today may have deeper roots than we realise.

Family Constellation explores hidden family dynamics, unresolved trauma, unconscious loyalties, and repeating relationship patterns that can be passed through generations.

Healing begins when we stop asking:

“What’s wrong with me?”

And start asking:

“What am I carrying that may not belong to me?”

🌿 When you heal yourself, you help break unhealthy family patterns. Your children can benefit from the changes you make today.

📍 Bandar Botanic, Klang

📩 DM “CONSTELLATION” to learn more.

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Klang
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Monday 10:00 - 17:00
Tuesday 10:00 - 17:00
Wednesday 10:00 - 17:00
Thursday 10:00 - 17:00
Friday 09:00 - 17:00
Saturday 09:00 - 13:00

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+60143138265

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