06/10/2026
What really touched me was the profoundness I could sense when I softened within myself, and in the arms of the other. My life had been very shaken just before the start.
To be able to arrive, soften, and actually allow myself to fall. To meet the brokenness I was experiencing, rather than holding it together.
And then, the richness of being witnessed in my process without judgement, with so much tenderness and love. To be held by the masculine when I was collapsing, without having to carry anything for anyone else.
In the arms of the other, I could breathe again. I could feel my own energy returning, and with it, a sense of safety and grounding.
Thank you Rita Maria for your insights, and depth on the experience.
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