She's a Wildflower

She's a Wildflower I believe that fitness is more than what you see on the outside. Fitness is about the mind, body and soul coming together to give you
that fit feeling.

23/03/2026

Overstimulated but still carrying on šŸ™ƒ that anyone else’s vibe at the moment?

Because, same... I absolutely love how my life looks right now - I get to work from home, spending more time with my girl, balancing mum life and work life. Genuinely living the dream! But that doesn’t mean it doesn’t get overwhelming sometimes (especially for this ADHD girly).

It feels like my mind constantly has a million tabs open that never really close (very on brand for me tbh… my internet browser looks the same). I’m constantly moving through the day doing what needs to be done, but never really stopping, and definitely not taking even two minutes for myself.

And when I do finally sit down, I do what I think a lot of us do… ✨ dooooooomscroll ✨

Not gonna lie, at the start of mat leave I kinda loved it, but now it’s just become a habit where I’m not even taking anything in? If anything it just adds to the noise and I feel more drained afterwards. But I still do it in the name of ā€œjust five minutesā€ (which is never just five minutes).

Anyway, I’m trying to break up with scrolling (especially because I now do it for work too), and I’m trying to find other ways to take a breath that actually leave me feeling better for it. So naturally, when I heard about Nook, that’s literally been designed for these moments, I had to give it a go.

It’s designed to be used ny mum’s in amongst the busy-ness of parenthood, but I’ve been using it as a little reset in the middle of the work day when my brain starts to get too full. It just feels like that little mental reset I need to carry on, and I’ve noticed I go back into my day feeling a bit clearer, a bit more steady, like I actually have a handle on things again.

It’s called Nook for Mums if you’ve been needing that kind of pause too šŸ¤

01/03/2026

I don’t think I realised how much long-term sleep deprivation would affect me. Not the newborn phase, because you expect that and you’re kind of running on adrenaline anyway, but the months after, when life is technically ā€œback to normalā€ but you haven’t actually slept through the night in almost a year.

It’s not even just being tired. It feels like my nervous system is always slightly on edge because I never quite reach the bottom of rest before the day starts again.

I stopped drinking coffee years ago because I noticed it was making it worse. I love coffee, but it started making me feel wired and fragile at the same time, like my brain was moving faster than my body could keep up with, and with the lack of sleep already, I knew that it would just tip me right over. (It made me a snappy person before becoming a mom so I would hate to think what it would do to me now 🫠)

So naturally I hopped on the matcha train. It became something I looked forward to, but not in a productivity way. More in a ā€œthis makes me feel like myself again for five minutesā€ way.

I started by taking a walk to my local coffee shop, which was a beautiful ritual when the early days just felt too much. I’d pop bub in the front pack and she’d have a little nap while I got myself a little treat. And then they started charging $10 for an iced matcha and sorry not sorry, I’m not paying that šŸ™ƒ

So now I’ve done the responsible thing and I’m making it at home. I lowkey love the process of making it, the quiet, the feeling of doing something slowly before the day properly begins. It’s the one part of my morning that’s just for me that I have between daycare drop offs and starting work.

It hasn’t fixed the sleep deprivation, obviously. I’m still tired most days. But it feels like one small way of taking care of my nervous system instead of pushing through it.

01/03/2026

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I don’t think I realised how much long-term sleep deprivation would affect me. Not the newborn phase, because you expect that and you’re kind of running on adrenaline anyway, but the months after, when life is technically ā€œback to normalā€ but you haven’t actually slept through the night in almost a year.

It’s not even just being tired. It feels like my nervous system is always slightly on edge because I never quite reach the bottom of rest before the day starts again.

I stopped drinking coffee years ago because I noticed it was making it worse. I love coffee, but it started making me feel wired and fragile at the same time, like my brain was moving faster than my body could keep up with, and with the lack of sleep already, I knew that it would just tip me right over. (It made me a snappy person before becoming a mom so I would hate to think what it would do to me now 🫠)

So naturally I hopped on the matcha train. It became something I looked forward to, but not in a productivity way. More in a ā€œthis makes me feel like myself again for five minutesā€ way.

I started by taking a walk to my local coffee shop, which was a beautiful ritual when the early days just felt too much. I’d pop bub in the front pack and she’d have a little nap while I got myself a little treat. And then they started charging $10 for an iced matcha and sorry not sorry, I’m not paying that šŸ™ƒ

So now I’ve done the responsible thing and I’m making it at home. I lowkey love the process of making it, the quiet, the feeling of doing something slowly before the day properly begins. It’s the one part of my morning that’s just for me that I have between daycare drop offs and starting work.

It hasn’t fixed the sleep deprivation, obviously. I’m still tired most days. But it feels like one small way of taking care of my nervous system instead of pushing through it.

08/02/2026

Michelle a year ago would be shook that it’s taken me this long to get a proper workout in, but we’re finally back in the gym šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø

Ready to finally enter my fit mum era šŸ‹šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

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