Fern Hill Funeral Home

06/01/2026

05/26/2026

Neil Jerome Fretheim

Neil Jerome Fretheim, lifetime resident of Grays Harbor passed away on Wednesday, May 6, 2026, at Harbor Regional Health in Aberdeen, WA.

Born on August 30, 1967, in Aberdeen to Virgil and Shirley Fretheim. Following his graduation, he proudly joined the United States Army, where he faithfully served his country for more than a decade. After his honorable discharge and return to the Harbor, Neil began a long and dedicated career with Stafford Creek Corrections Center as a correctional officer when the facility first opened its doors.

Neil took great pride in serving both his country and community. He was deeply admired and respected by his fellow employees and residents alike for his dedication, strength, fairness, and compassion. Being part of the team at Stafford was something he truly valued and was honored to serve alongside such an incredible group of officers and support staff throughout the years. Neil was a lifelong fan of the Green Bay Packers, never missing a game. Neil’s presence, loyalty, and friendship will greatly be missed by his colleagues, friends, and all those who had the privilege of knowing him.

Neil’s legacy lives on through his 4 children: Carmen, Jason, Justin, and Kaylan; his sisters, Kim, Debbie, and Karen, and his 7 beloved grandchildren, as well as many extended family and friends who meant so much to him throughout his life.

A celebration of Neil’s life will be held on Sunday, June 14, 2026, from 1:00 PM - 4:00 PM located at the Aberdeen Elks Lodge #593. 1712 S. Boone St., Aberdeen, WA 98520.

To leave a memory or note of condolence for the family, please visit www.fernhillfuneral.com. Arrangements are entrusted to Twibell’s Fern Hill Funeral Home, in Aberdeen, WA.

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05/24/2026

The office will be closed Monday, May 25th, in observance of Memorial Day.

We invite you to join us on May 25th at 1PM at Fern Hill Cemetery as we observe the holiday with a special remembrance service.

Normal office hours will resume Tuesday, May 26th.

05/22/2026

Grief is a journey that will look different for everyone. Be gentle with yourself and remember there is more than one way to grieve.

05/18/2026

Mitchell John "Mitch" Todd

Mitchell “Mitch” Todd, 60, passed away tragically in a motorcycle accident on May 3, 2026, in Brady. Mitch was born on November 17, 1965, in Burlingame, CA to Marlene Todd and James Todd.

In 1966, Mitch’s family moved to Elma, where he spent the rest of his life. Mitch was the middle child between his older brother, Martin Todd, and younger brother, Jerry Todd. He graduated from Elma High School in 1984.

After high school, Mitch attended Centralia College and graduated in 1986, with an associate degree in forestry. Mitch began his career with Weyerhaeuser, where he spent his first five years working in the machine room and roll line at the mill in Cosmopolis. He later joined the pipefitting crew, where he worked for the next 15 years.

Following the closure of the Weyerhaeuser mill, Mitch became a union journeyman pipefitter with Local 26. In the spring of 2008, he started at Precision Pipe Fabricators, where he spent the remainder of his career. Through hard work and dedication, Mitch worked his way up to foreman and earned the respect of his coworkers and fellow contractors throughout the industry.

In 1997, Mitch married Lori Genson, and together they welcomed their son, Dalton Todd. Mitch and Lori later divorced in 2006. Mitch raised Dalton and cherished the time they spent together throughout his life.

Mitch was a proud fastpitch coach and helped coach the Elma High School softball team to a 3rd place state finish in 2005, and a state championship in 2014. He was loved by every girl he coached and made a lasting impact on countless young athletes throughout the years.

Mitch was the kind of man people could always count on — loyal, generous, and always willing to help others. He formed lifelong friendships and treated many people like family.

Mitch loved hunting, spending time with family and friends, traveling, and riding his motorcycle. He will be remembered for his big heart, sense of humor, and unwavering support for those around him.

Mitch is survived by his mother, Marlene Todd; his son, Dalton Todd; his brothers, Martin Todd and his wife Amanda Todd, and Jerry Todd; along with many extended family members and close friends who will forever cherish the memories they shared with him. He was preceded in death by his father, James Todd.

A celebration of life will be held on June 13, 2026, at 2:00 p.m. at the Grays Harbor County Fairgrounds in the Pavillion. Please take a moment to share your memories or notes of condolence for the family at www.fernhillfuneral.com. Arrangements are entrusted to Twibell’s Fern Hill Funeral Home in Aberdeen, Washington.

“Rest easy, Mitch. You will always be loved, remembered, and deeply missed.”

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05/07/2026

John Delbert "Boogie" Bernier

John was born on August 22,1942 in Dallas, OR to Arnold and Edith (Bakke) Bernier. He graduated from Dallas High School in 1960 and joined the United States Navy. Following his Honorable Discharge, he moved to Raymond where he gained employment for Weyerhaeuser as a mechanic. He retired from Weyerhaeuser in 2006 after 42 years of service.

John loved Elvis, karaoke and golf. He was a life-long Oregon Ducks fan and an LA Dodgers fan from the age of 10.

John is survived by three daughters: Debbie Stigall of Raymond WA, Sarah (Rod) Kaplan of Brady WA, and Leah (Rob) Bulatao of San Diego CA, two sisters Joy Sharp of OK, and June Hubbard of Hillsboro OR, six grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren. John was preceded in death by two brothers: Jim and Jack Bernier and a sister Donna Slack.

A private ceremony was held on the beach in Manzanita OR where his ashes were spread by his daughters Debbie, Sarah and family and Leah and family.

There will be no services. A message of condolence or of a memory can be sent to the family at Fern Hill Funeral Home in Aberdeen, WA

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