11/04/2026
What can you say when someone comments on your body during eating disorder recovery? You can keep your response simple. Depending on the situation, you might say:
▪️Direct responses:
“I’m not discussing my body.”
“Please don’t comment on my weight or appearance."
▪️Brief subject changes
“I’d rather talk about something else. How have you been?”
“Let’s move on from appearance-related topics.”
▪️Softer Responses
“I know you’re trying to be kind, but comments about my body can be difficult for me.”
“I appreciate your concern. What helps most is not focusing on my appearance or food choices.”
If body comments, food talk, or body image concerns are making eating disorder recovery more difficult, an eating disorder therapist can help you develop boundaries and coping strategies that fit your individual recovery.
Learn more in our most recent blog: https://www.recoveredandrestoredtherapy.com/post/how-to-respond-to-body-comments-during-eating-disorder-recovery