21/06/2026
Brains are funny things.
The harder something is, the more we compartmentalize it — and over time, the details get fuzzy.
That happens a lot with early parenting.
People don’t remember the hard parts, so they assume you must be doing something wrong.
You aren’t sleep training.
Or following a schedule.
Or feeding from a bottle.
Or giving them “enough” milk.
The truth is, they weren’t better at this than you are.
They’ve just forgotten how hard these moments can be.
This is your baby.
Your journey.
Your story.
And you aren’t doing it wrong.
It’s just really hard right now.
You’re going to get to the other side.