08/10/2026
📣 1 in 5!
You DO know someone, or you ARE someone, who had/has/may in the future develop a perinatal mental health complication. They don’t typically go away on their own. They require treatment (i.e.- therapy, medication if/when appropriate, holistic treatment and care coordination when needed).
This is not to scare anyone. It is to encourage everyone to take an active part in their mental health. It is our responsibility as adults to educate ourselves and know what to look for. In the perinatal period and beyond.
Expert care is essential. When you’re feeling at your worst, you need to be able to trust that your provider knows how to help you, and knows when to refer to another provider or a different level of care (for example, in an acute crisis such as psychosis).
When you’re checking in on your people, center their experience vs. your anxiety about their response.
Anxious question= “You’re not feeling suicidal, are you?” (This shuts down the conversation. Most won’t say yes to this.)
Centering their experience= “I’ve noticed you’ve seemed [sad, distant, exhausted, different, etc]. I care about you. How are you doing, really? …Sometimes people have thoughts [during pregnancy, after birth] that scare them. I want you to know I am a safe person you can share with no matter what. I’m here for you.”
Find a local perinatal mental health therapist here:
https://psidirectory.com/w:21234
1 in 5 women and birthing people will experience a perinatal mental health disorder. That makes it the most common complication of childbirth: more common than gestational diabetes, more common than preeclampsia.
And yet we so often only talk about it after a tragedy happens.
We have to change that. Support shouldn’t be a reaction; it should be a resource people know about from the start. Whether you’re 2 weeks postpartum or 2 years out, whether you have a diagnosis or you’re just not sure why you feel this way, help is here.
Get help now ⤵️
🔵 Call or text the Postpartum Support International HelpLine at 800-944-4773. You never need a diagnosis to ask for help.
🔵 Call or text the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-852-6262
🔵 In a crisis situation, call or text the National Su***de & Crisis Lifeline at 988.
🔵 Download the Connect by PSI app in the App Store or Google Play Store
🔵 Visit Postpartum.net for additional programs and resources.
You are not alone. You are not to blame. With help, you WILL be well 💙