10/31/2026
The rage is a symptom
You lost it over a dish in the sink. A tone of voice. A question asked at the wrong moment. And then you sat in the car afterward thinking: what is wrong with me.
Nothing is wrong with you as a person. Something is wrong with your capacity. Those are completely different diagnoses.
Rage is what a system does when it has no margin left. Not when it's angry — when it's out of room. Every input lands at full volume because there's nothing left to absorb the impact.
You've probably noticed it isn't proportional to what's happening. That's the tell. Proportional anger is information about a situation. Disproportionate rage is information about your reserves.
What's usually underneath it:
● Sleep that hasn't been right in months
● Hormonal shifts, especially the luteal phase and perimenopause
● Blood sugar swinging all day long
● Inflammation
● Being needed constantly with no break in it
● Something you're carrying that you've decided not to look at
That last one is very seasonal. Fall brings things up. When grief has nowhere to go, it frequently comes out sideways as irritability because irritation is a far more socially acceptable emotion than sorrow.
I say this to a lot of patients: you are not an angry person. You are a depleted person who has run out of buffer.
Depletion responds to treatment. Character flaws don't. This is the better diagnosis.
If you've been snapping and then hating yourself for it, come in.
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