09/05/2026
iykyk. That heavy, dread-in-your-chest feeling when a name pops up and you already know you’re about to manage someone else’s emotions again. It’s exhausting in a way that’s hard to explain to people who didn’t grow up doing this.
If you were the one who learned early to anticipate what everyone else needed, this role might feel like your job. So even now, a phone call can trigger the same bracing your body learned decades ago.
One small thing to try next time you feel that drop in your stomach: before you answer, pause and ask yourself one question… “What do I need right now?” You don’t necessarily have to act on the answer. Just asking it starts to interrupt the autopilot that skips straight to everyone else.
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