07/30/2026
"this is how your body speaks, this is how it changes and this is how you listen."
Normalize the conversation, the products, the choices.
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This is beautiful. Jennae Cecelia | Poet – The part I keep coming back to is the girl taking all the free products from the public bathroom because she doesn’t know the next time she’ll have any. So many women and girls don’t have access to menstrual products at all, and for those of us who do, making sure they’re accessible is the least of it!
So many of us grew up in the era where you’re at school or at work and you take your tampon and you stick it up your sleeve so nobody sees that you’re on your period. Those days should be done.
If you have a daughter, one of the most useful things you can do is normalize your own cycle around her, because that is what she is going to see and learn from. And don’t assume that because you had easy cycles she will. I had easy, easy cycles. A couple of my daughters had really hard menstrual cycles over their lives. They’re just different people. My husband’s whole side of the family has different women’s genetics. It’s just different.
Even for me as a midwife, and that was my whole life, there were times my daughters were like, “Mom, I don’t want to hear it.” Now they’ll say, well, you didn’t give me enough education about things. But at that point they didn’t want to hear it.
So if she doesn’t want the conversation with you, give her a book. Leave information around. Leave the pads in the bathroom. Ask the questions so that she doesn’t have to carry the fear of asking. And if there’s a sister or an auntie or a best family friend, let her talk to your daughter and you talk to hers.
My own book, Hormone Intelligence, is the one I’d give. I wrote it for exactly this, and it’s an amazing gift for a daughter who’s learning to understand her own cycles.
Comment “HORMONES” and I’ll send you the link.