08/21/2026
REWRITE MINUTE:
Your thoughts really do matter.
I’ve had several conversations lately that have really made me think about this.
I’ve talked with people who have spent so much time worrying about a diagnosis, fearing what might be wrong with their body, or anticipating the worst that even when they receive GOOD news, they sometimes have a hard time letting themselves believe it.
Instead of relief, another worry can creep in.
What if they missed something?
What if something else is wrong?
Why am I still having symptoms?
Why don’t I feel as relieved as I think I should?
Sometimes there can even be guilt around how you think you’re supposed to feel.
And it reminded me:
Your thoughts really do matter.
When you’ve spent an amount of time expecting something to be wrong, you don’t necessarily flip a switch the moment someone tells you everything is okay.
That’s why awareness is so important.
I see this with health all the time. We feel something in our body and immediately fear the worst. We watch it, analyze it, worry about it, and sometimes allow it to consume our thoughts.
But there’s a difference between being aware of your body and being afraid of your body.
I always tell my clients: listen to the whisper before your body has to scream.
Pay attention to symptoms. Notice patterns. Ask what your body may be trying to communicate and what might need to change.
But don’t forget something incredibly important:
Your body has survived life right alongside you.
Think about everything it has carried you through…stress, heartbreak, sleepless nights, illness, loss, difficult seasons, and probably plenty of times when taking care of yourself wasn’t your first priority.
And it’s still here, working for you every single day.
So listen to your body, but also thank your body.
Thank it for its resilience.
Thank it for everything it’s doing right.
Give it nourishment, rest, movement, compassion, and love.
You can acknowledge what’s happening in your body without allowing it to become your identity.
You are bigger than a symptom.
You are bigger than a diagnosis.
You are bigger than a toxin, pathogen, or whatever else may be showing up.
And this isn’t only about health.
We can dwell on hurt, anger, resentment and everything that could go wrong—or we can intentionally put more of our attention toward love, gratitude, compassion, appreciation and faith.
You don’t have to ignore difficult things or pretend they don’t exist.
Just don’t build a home in them.
Listen to the whispers.
Become aware.
Make changes when changes are needed.
Get support when you need it.
But never become so focused on what’s wrong; or what might be wrong; that you forget everything that’s still right.
And if you’ve spent a long time living in fear, maybe your next step isn’t finding one more thing to worry about.
Maybe it’s learning to trust your body again.
You’ve survived a lot together. Give it a little gratitude for it.
And if you need some help figuring out what your body may be trying to tell you, let’s chat. I have programs and services that can help.