09/02/2026
Asking your massage therapist for a “h*ppy ending” is like asking your doctor during a physical exam to j€rk you off.
It’s disgusting. It’s disrespectful. And frankly, you should be embarrassed that you thought it was appropriate to ask.
Unfortunately, this is not uncommon in the massage industry. Therapists are regularly put in uncomfortable (and sometimes unsafe) situations because people choose to s€xualize a profession that is literally healthcare.
Let me remind you what we actually do:
We study HOURS of anatomy and pathology.
We go to cadaver labs & learn more extensively about the body.
We memorize every muscle in the body, where it originates, inserts, and what movements it creates.
We learn contraindications, assessment, therapeutic techniques, and different healing modalities.
We take licensing exams.
And our education doesn’t stop when we graduate.
Many of us continue our education because we genuinely care about this work and want to provide the most effective, knowledgeable, therapeutic care possible.
This is my career.
This is my business.
This is my safe space.
And I deserve to feel safe in it.
To my male clients who consistently show up with respect, professionalism, and integrity: thank you. 🤍
It means more than you know to welcome you into the space I’ve created and trust that you understand the boundaries of our professional relationship.
When those boundaries are respected, something beautiful happens: I get to do the work I love, and you get to receive therapeutic bodywork that can help with pain, recovery, relaxation, mobility, and nervous-system regulation.
So, effective immediately:
New male clients will no longer be accepted unless referred.
This isn’t because I believe all men are disrespectful.
It’s because I’m not willing to potentially risk my safety and comfort to accommodate the ones who are.
My boundaries are not an invitation for negotiation.
They are how I protect myself, my business, and the integrity of this work.
Massage is not s€x.
My body is not part of the service.
And “h*ppy endings” will never be part of my practice.
Respect the profession.
Respect the therapist.
Respect the boundary.
Much love,
Bree 🤍