09/02/2026
āØOUR BOYZ are so important. Itās literally our job as the divine feminine leaders in the world.āØāØPERIOD.
No more victim stories.
No more hyper feminism.
No more them against us,
Iām so serious bout this.
As a mother of a boy & a long standing medicine woman in my community, it is my duty to learn to understand & do by them right.āØāØYou can only practice this perspective if you have done enough shadow work, & expanded conscious far enough to anchor being able to hold multiple perspectives at once n most of all staying curious as a m**o.
My gawd!āØāØwhen I feel the tenderness, the masculinity, & the love of my sonā¦I see everything that is right n natural with the world. āØāØI will protect his masculine heart til the death of me.āØāØI will aim to understand the ridiculous pressures he is automatically6 under while still holding him to a high standard of SELF & interpersonal integity.
āØINTEGRITY I SAIDā¦
Teach him what his own integrity looks & feels like as he interacts with the world & especially with women.āØāØJust lil sneak peak into our world, my son, Atreyu, carried my 3 bags of groceries & his back pack up our stairs to our apartment without being askedā¦.āØāØEntertained his 1 year younger Lil sister n then I found him laying in their top bunk together like girl friends, him telling herā¦āgimme the gossipā (since they now go to diff schools for first time). āØāØ& he was so serious, relaxed, in his power, like, sisā¦ gimme all your stories, im attentive & present. āØāØShe enthusiastically filled him in on all the juice, all the crushes & whispers so mom didnāt hear.
āØThan this morning, I saw her light up getting ready when he sweetly but not weirdly said ācāmon. Baddie. Letās get ready for the day.āāØāØOMG it made her world for her own brother to basically call her beautiful & make her confident to go to her new school.āØāØFMLā¦ I love these kids.l I love being a boy mom. Any good advice is welcomeā¦ bunk advice or judgment, no thank you.āØāØLove,
The Ultimate Boy Mom
