11/10/2026
🌈🇺🇸🤘💪🏼🦄🍑. Go lift some weights.
I’m talking to the women my age. The 40- 50-year-olds. The ones who spent years hearing that lifting would make us bulky. I care what you think. And if you think you’re going to get bulky by picking up some weights, I think you’re wrong.
I see people every day as a healthcare provider. I can often tell who’s been lifting consistently. I hear it in how sharp they are. I see it in how they move. A lot of times I see it in their labs, too.
And it’s a compilation of things. You start showing up to lift, and pretty soon you’re thinking, “I worked my ass off in there. What can I eat that’ll actually help me feel good and get stronger?” You start wanting to spend more time with people who challenge you. You start wondering where else you’ve been selling yourself short.
That’s the discipline I’m talking about. You keep asking your body to do a little more, and eventually you have proof that you can.
I’m on day 70 of 75 Hard for the fourth or fifth time. I did my first one after a hurricane, after losing my house, after becoming an empty nester way too soon and becoming a Grammy, all basically in the same year. And I was in grad school.
I already knew I could do hard things. I still had no idea how much more I was capable of.
That’s what I want the women my age to find out for themselves. How much of the life you want are you talking yourself out of because you’ve already decided what you can handle?
Go lift some weights. In my experience, it helps with a whole hell of a lot more than you think.
Just saying.