06/04/2026
How to Communicate with Spirits: The Backwards Dinner Ritual 🔮
Patti Negri breaks down the powerful “Dumb Supper” (also called a Backwards Dinner) — a beautiful way to honor and connect with loved ones who’ve passed, especially after a recent death or on their birthday.
Here’s how it works:
• Start with dessert first
• Then the main course
• End with salad or appetizer (eating the meal in reverse)
• Set a place at the table for them
• Share memories, then sit in silence so they can communicate
• Finally, say goodbye to their physical body as you “begin” the normal part of the meal
Patti explains that the reversed order shows the other side — and their spirit is still strong and present forever. ✨
Would you try this ritual to connect with someone you’ve lost? Drop a ❤️ if you’ve ever felt a loved one’s presence during a special dinner.