Date Him Honey

Date Him Honey I help you rewire your body to receive the kind of love you don’t have to beg, shrink, or hustle for.

08/22/2026

Want to play with this?

Try 10% more aliveness in love this week.

Whether you’re dating someone new or eight years in, ask yourself:

Where am I playing it a little too safe because I want to be liked?

What would I say if I were 10% more honest about what I actually want?

What part of me am I waiting to reveal until I know how he’ll respond?

Where could I bring 10% more flirtation instead of waiting for him to create the chemistry?

What would make our next date feel 10% more surprising, playful or adventurous?

If I’m dating: am I actually letting him discover me, or presenting the version of me I think will be easiest to choose?

If I’m partnered: when did I last let my man see something NEW in me?

Where could I risk initiating something I want instead of waiting to see whether he does?

🔥 And my favorite:

If I knew love was sturdy enough to hold MORE of me, what would I bring into it?

Safety is the floor.

And whether you’re calling love in or deepening the love you already have, see what happens when you let yourself turn the volume up just 10%. 💋

08/20/2026

Men are giving you information ALL the time. Get good at noticing what he’s showing you, trusting what you see, deciding what YOU want to do with it, then TAKE ACTION.

Comment BLOOM if you’re ready to get off the emotional rollercoaster and be THAT woman who can relax, receive + feel wildly alive in love. 💋

I think this is one of the deepest practices of intimacy.Actually inhabiting yourself while you love someone else.We lea...
08/14/2026

I think this is one of the deepest practices of intimacy.

Actually inhabiting yourself while you love someone else.

We leave our bodies in such tiny ways. Belly sucked in. Breath shallow. Jaw tight. Suddenly all our attention is over there.

His face. His tone. That pause.

And the more attention I send toward him, the less I can hear myself.

For me, embodiment in love has become refusing to disappear from my own experience.

I let my belly soften. I breathe into my back. I let disappointment ache before explaining it away. I know what I know before checking his face for confirmation.

And something beautiful happens.

I can feel him deeply without making him my center of gravity.

Because if I disappear into you, you can’t actually meet me.

There has to be a me here for you to love, and a you there for me to love.

xx

Comment BLOOM if you’re ready for your next era in love. 🌸You don’t need less depth, sensitivity or love.You need a body...
08/14/2026

Comment BLOOM if you’re ready for your next era in love. 🌸

You don’t need less depth, sensitivity or love.
You need a body that knows what to do with all that POWER.

Your next era in love gets to feel really fu***ng good.

21 days.
5-minute morning audios (positively brainwashing you)
Guided somatic practices (in less than 10min a day)

The kind of reps that create lasting transformation.

No more collecting insight.
More becoming.

Comment BLOOM and I’ll send you the details.

xx

08/10/2026

Number 5 (still makes me laugh) and 10 liberated me!!

1. “I noticed your energy shifted. Is something going on?”

2. “That didn’t feel good to me.”

3. “I don’t need an answer right now. I do need clarity eventually.”

4. “I’d rather ask you than make up a story in my head.”

5. “I hear your apology. I need to see what happens next.”

6. “I changed my mind.”

7. “I’m noticing I’m getting activated. Give me a second.”

8. “I want to understand what you meant before I react to what I think you meant.”

9. “I’m interested, but this pace is too fast for me.”

10. “I believe you. And I’m still paying attention to the pattern.”

Secure energy is built on three things:

🔥 Enough bravery to say the scary thing.

🔥 A willingness to say it before you’re “ready.”

🔥 Trust the reps are what build both capacity + resiliency.

Hope these help! Love BIG babe.

If it’s been more than 3 months and you’re still circling the same heartbreak, dating pattern or relationship trigger, y...
08/09/2026

If it’s been more than 3 months and you’re still circling the same heartbreak, dating pattern or relationship trigger, you probably don’t need another 3 months of thinking about it.

DM me “HER,” let’s chat and see if this is the right room for you.

Especially if you’re the woman who has already done the work.

I don’t need to list them all off, you’ve put your damn time in.

And yet… some part of you is still there.

Because so much of healing gets compartmentalized.

We work on the mindset, the body or the emotions.

And each can create movement, but if your mind has moved on while your body is still bracing, or your body feels safer while your subconscious is quietly whispering “I’m not enough,” you can know better and still find yourself back in the same freaking pattern.

You can’t create a new love story while different parts of you are still living in the old one.

At some point, your body, subconscious mind, emotions and energy all need to start moving in the same direction.

That’s the work I do inside HER.

Not more analyzing yourself.
Not another year trying to become “healed enough” for love.
🤮

Ten private sessions designed to get underneath the pattern that’s been running the show, and help all of you move forward.

If you know exactly what I’m talking about, see you in my DM’s.

Kiss kiss.

There’s so much talk about healing your inner child in love and relationships, but your inner teen be like WTF!??She’s i...
08/07/2026

There’s so much talk about healing your inner child in love and relationships, but your inner teen be like WTF!??

She’s incredibly smart.

She remembers exactly what happened the last time you trusted too quickly.

The last time you were embarrassed.

The last time you were ghosted.

The last time you begged, overexplained, or stayed too long.

Babe, so now…

She doesn’t just protect you from pain.

She protects you from possibility.

Here’s an experiment I’ve started giving clients.

The next time you’re activated, don’t ask,

“What’s wrong with me?”

Ask,

“What is my inner teen trying to control right now?”

Maybe she’s trying to control:
• whether he’ll text
• how you’re perceived
• whether you’re rejected
• how vulnerable you appear
• whether you can guarantee the outcome

Then ask one more question.

What would happen if I released just 5% of that control?

Not 100%.

Just 5%.

Maybe you send the honest text instead of the perfectly crafted one.

Maybe you let there be silence without filling it.

Maybe you ask directly instead of decoding clues.

Maybe you allow someone to disappoint you without abandoning yourself.

I’ve found something fascinating after working with hundreds of women.

The biggest breakthroughs rarely happen because we become better at controlling love.

They happen because we become better at tolerating uncertainty.

That’s usually the moment your adult self quietly takes the wheel.

xx 💋

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