05/03/2026
Understand what “authority” actually means
From the Book written by Rev. Dr. Emmanuel Adetula M.Div.
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CHAPTER 2
You can have money and occupied a very high powerful position and lack authority in your own home over your own family, over your wife or even over your own children and one of the reason that you have money to take care of everybody and pay everybody salary on time at your office but lack authority in your home and office is because you are weak in your inner man, big man outside but small man inside, nothing leaves inside of you, why? one reason is you are engaging in s*xual sin or adultery so they sucks out energy from your soul as big and handsome, rich you were but so weak inside because an husband cannot have spiritual authority over his wife is more powerful than the husband inside of her that is why she is able to control and manipulate your life spiritually and you know it, because she does not commit adultery and a mother will lose spiritual control over her own children when she goes about engaging in s*xual immorality, it comes automatically the she begins to see that her own children no longer have respect or honor for her , Mummy! so one of the reason you have all the money and in this high position and you have no control over your own family is because you are quenching the power of your inner man with s*xual immorality that saps your soul dry of power a from within to take authority over others who are supposed to operate under your control and directions with respect , fear and honor but they are just playing to receive from you refusing to acknowledge your authority as the leader since spiritual authority is not a mystical feeling — it is the combination of:
• a clear conscience
• self discipline
• inner confidence
• consistency in your spiritual practices
Sexual sin disrupts these areas, which is why you feel “weakened.” As soon as you are positioned in such weaken position, Your Spouse spirit can pick it up miles away and he or she automatically becomes stronger and superior to you spiritually even without knowing about what you have done in secret, you are respected and honor outside but s*xual sin reduced you below your own wife and children at home in the spiritual realm. But authority can be rebuilt — and often becomes stronger afterward. How?
2. Stop interpreting the Holy Spirit as “leaving you”
This is important for your emotional and spiritual health.
In Christian teaching, the Holy Spirit does not “run away” from you when you sin. But your awareness of His presence becomes clouded by:
Guilt, shame, internal conflict, loss of focus, emotional heaviness
This is why you feel “reduced.” It’s not abandonment — it’s interference of your authority over your own family, it puts you under your wife or husband or your employee and even your own children , so the only thing you can demonstrate in your state of inner emptiness is to result to anger, shouting, fighting , noise making disturbing the neighbors sleep because whom you are being reduced below your level of authority, you feel dishonor in your own home, but what you did not know is that such interference of your authority in this house is due to your s*xual immorality that put you at a very low level of your spouse and children, and your existence at that level is being sustain by the holiness of your spouse, that is you are operating like using one of his or her kidney to move, the spirit knows it, you go out messing around with other men, it is the active holy spirit of your husband that you come back home to sleep with it that is keeping you running , you are already inactive inside of you, so nobody is cheating you or dishoarding you or acting like a witch, it is you that is trading away your own spiritual power for extra marital affairs here and there that is the problem in the marriage and in this home. ỌTỌ LOKO ỌTỌ LỌKỌ
3. Rebuild authority through honesty, not self punishment
Authority returns when you stop hiding from yourself.
A simple, honest prayer like:
“I acknowledge what happened. I want to walk in integrity again.”
This restores clarity faster than long guilt cycles of trying to shift blame of the result of your infidelity living to satisfied the desire of the flesh slowing down the space of the destiny of your family and children because you like to use s*x as your own therapy to go by then acting to blame your spouse on financial and other problems brought home with your demons that enters in between your 2 legs. You cannot drive a demons from this world as long as people like you allows them to reside inside of you instead of allowing the holy spirit a space, it they sweet you ? You can`t do without doing it? The man don`t leave you alone, that is why is your internal alignment is broken and now left you with no authority but money in the banks inner strength is what gives you authority.
4. Rebuild your internal alignment
• Sexual sin breaks alignment between:
• what you believe
• what you want
• what you did
• Authority returns when these three things come back into unity.
You do this by:
• reaffirming your values
• deciding the kind of man or woman you want to be
• taking responsibility without self condemnation
• This creates inner strength, which feels like spiritual authority.
5. Rebuild discipline in small steps
Authority grows from discipline, not perfection.
Start with:
• consistent prayer (even 5 minutes)
• reading a short scripture daily
• avoiding triggers
• setting boundaries
• practicing self control in small areas
• When you regain discipline in one area, your authority rises in all areas.
6. Repair your self respect
Sexual sin often damages a man’s self image, not his destiny.
You rebuild self respect by:
• forgiving yourself
• learning from the mistake
• choosing better next time
• refusing to define yourself by your weakness
• A man who has fallen and risen becomes more powerful, not less.
7. Break emotional and psychological ties
Even without mystical language, s*xual intimacy creates:
• emotional attachment
• psychological imprint
• memory loops
• guilt cycles
• comparison
• internal conflict
• You break these ties by:
• journaling your thoughts
• naming what you feel
• releasing the person emotionally
• choosing closure
This restores mental clarity, which feels like spiritual clarity.
8. Rebuild trust with yourself
Authority is impossible when you don’t trust your own decisions.
You rebuild trust by:
• keeping small promises to yourself
• avoiding situations that lead to temptation
• being honest about your weaknesses
• choosing accountability if needed
Every time you keep a promise to yourself, your authority increases.
9. Reconnect with purpose
Sexual sin often distracts a man from his mission.
Authority returns when you reconnect with:
• your calling
• your goals
• your responsibilities
• your long term vision
Purpose is one of the strongest sources of spiritual strength.
10. Understand this: your authority is not destroyed — it is recoverable
You have not lost your destiny. You have not lost your calling. You have not lost your spiritual sensitivity.
Rebuilding often produce stronger, wiser, more disciplined men.
From Rev Dr. Emmanuel Adetula M.Div.
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