07/30/2026
IN LIEU OF FLOWERS MEMORIAL DONATIONS MAY BE MADE IN DONNA'S MEMORY TO:
GREENWOOD LAKE ANIMAL HOSPITAL
1925 UNION VALLEY ROAD
HEWITT, NJ 07421
www.gwlah.com
AND / OR
MILTON FIRST AID SQUAD
45 MILTON ROAD
OAK RIDGE, NJ 07438
www.miltonfirstaidsquad.org
MEMORIAL VISITATION:
TO BE ANNOUNCED
Donna L. De Feo (née Poltersdorf), 81, of Oak Ridge, NJ, passed away peacefully on July 29, 2026, surrounded by her loving family.
Born on June 10, 1945, in Paterson, New Jersey, to the late Otto and Lillian Poltersdorf, Donna was raised in Fair Lawn, New Jersey, and was a proud graduate of the Fair Lawn High School Class of 1963. A few years after graduation, she married the love of her life, John De Feo Jr., on May 7, 1967, at Van Riper Ellis Memorial Church in Fair Lawn, New Jersey. She was a lifelong resident of West Milford, New Jersey, before moving to Oak Ridge in 2015.
Donna’s life was a testament to deep love, compassion, and steadfast family devotion. As a dedicated homemaker, she poured her heart into caring for her loved ones. She loved to cook and truly cherished hosting holidays and gatherings with family and friends, creating memories that will last forever. Donna was also known for her vibrant spirit - she was the “life of the party”, always had a funny story to tell, and loved playing the NJ lottery, especially scratch-off tickets and her daily numbers.
She was a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and aunt.
Donna is lovingly...
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