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Joanne (Takeman) DrisdelleJoanne (Takeman) Drisdelle passed away peacefully in Springfield on October 27, 2026, at the a...
10/29/2026

Joanne (Takeman) Drisdelle

Joanne (Takeman) Drisdelle passed away peacefully in Springfield on October 27, 2026, at the age of 87.

Born in Hartford, Connecticut, on November 14, 1938, Joanne was the daughter of the late John and Josephine (Mazzamurra) Takeman. She spent her early years in Hartford before moving to West Springfield at age 15, where she later graduated from West Springfield High School.

Joanne’s greatest joy in life was her family. She treasured the time spent with her loved ones and will be remembered for the special place her family held in her heart.

In addition to her parents, Joanne was predeceased by her beloved husband of 55 years, Donald Drisdelle, and her brothers, Jack and Tommy Takeman.

She leaves behind her loving children: John and his wife, Terri; Michael and his wife, Candy (Kantianis); and Tracy Fitzgerald and her husband, Chris. She will be lovingly remembered by her grandchildren, Joelle Drisdelle, J’aime Viens, and Jillian and Ryan Fitzgerald; and her great-grandchildren, RJ Filipek and Rae Viens. She will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved her.

Calling hours will be 4-6pm on November 4 at Toomey-O’Brien Funeral Home in West Springfield. Funeral will be November 5 at 10:30 at the funeral home, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 11:30 at St. Thomas Church. Committal will take place at 1:00 at the Massachusetts Veterans Memorial Cemetery in Agawam.

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Joan L NewellWest Springfield, Joan L (Moody) Newell, 80, passed away October 21, 2026, at Baystate Medical Center. Born...
10/26/2026

Joan L Newell

West Springfield, Joan L (Moody) Newell, 80, passed away October 21, 2026, at Baystate Medical Center. Born in Staten Island, NY, December 28, 1945, the daughter of the late Clayton and Lorraine (Summers) Moody. Joan worked for AT&T for over 25 years and later as a crossing guard in West Springfield. She leaves her beloved husband of 62 yrs, Thomas Newell, her daughter, Deborah of SC, her siblings, Lorraine Lord of West Springfield, her twin sister, Jean Kowal of Fairhaven, MA and Randy Moody of Agawam. Joan was predeceased by her son, Thomas H Newell Jr and her brothers Ronald and Robert. Calling hours will be Thursday October 29, 2026, from 4-7PM at the Toomey-O’Brien Funeral Home 1043 Westfield St West Springfield. Burial will be private. PLEASE NO PARKING IN ST THOMAS PARKING LOT. USE SILVER ST.

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Cynthia (Koceniak) LaCombeCynthia (Koceniak) LaCombe passed away peacefully on October 22 in her West Springfield home s...
10/23/2026

Cynthia (Koceniak) LaCombe

Cynthia (Koceniak) LaCombe passed away peacefully on October 22 in her West Springfield home surrounded by family. She was 66 years old. Born in Holyoke on May 31, 1960, she was one of four children born to the late George and Albina (Borowiecki) Koceniak. She was raised in Chicopee and lived in Chicopee before settling in West Springfield over 30 years ago. Cynthia graduated Chicopee High School in 78 and went on to earn an Associates Degree from Holyoke Community College.

Cynthia was proud to work at Freedom Credit Union for 15 years where she was a Senior Operations Associate. Outside of work she found joy in volunteering, which included the West Springfield Parks and Recreation Department and CYO Basketball where she also coached. Cynthia was a talented hostess who loved having guests in her home.Her other interests included going to the beach, traveling especially new places, and her enthusiasm for the Cleveland Browns was surpassed only by her love for her children.

In addition to her parents, Cynthia was predeceased by her brother, Dennis Koceniak and his wife Patricia. She will be dearly missed by her loving children Justin and Brittany LaCombe, both of West Springfield; brothers Philip Koceniak of Chicopee and Jamie Koceniak and his wife Linda of Castro Vally, CA; Nephews Garrett, Genevieve and Adam Koceniak, and niece Kara McCormack and grand-niece Giana.

Family and friends can attend a 2:00-3:30 Memorial Visitation at Toomey-O’Brien Funeral Home on October 30, with a Memorial Service at 3:30.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a memorial donation in Cynthia’s name to Freedom Credit Union who is dedicating its October Month of Giving to Rays of Hope.

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Elizabeth Ann GazdaElizabeth “Liz” (Frost) GazdaElizabeth “Liz” (Frost) Gazda, 76, of West Springfield, MA, died peacefu...
10/20/2026

Elizabeth Ann Gazda

Elizabeth “Liz” (Frost) Gazda

Elizabeth “Liz” (Frost) Gazda, 76, of West Springfield, MA, died peacefully on October 19, 2026, after a long illness. If there’s a golf course in heaven, she’s already lined up an evening tee time with Gus by her side. Liz was born in Holyoke, the youngest of seven children of the late George E. Frost, founder and first president of Holyoke Community College, and Veronica (Lynch) Frost. She grew up in a big, loving Irish Catholic family. Being the baby of seven came with its own adventures, and the family stories are legendary. Liz had an independent streak from the very beginning. When she was four, she set off on her own from home on Claremont Avenue and turned up at her grandparents’ house on Hitchcock Street. Her grandmother called home and asked, “Do you know your daughter is here?” Her mother, Vera, answered, “Which one?” She loved the holidays and never stopped talking about those warm family memories. Growing up in that house shaped the foundation of Liz’s life: family, faith, and service to others. She was deeply loved, and she spent her life recreating that same warm circle of family and friends around her own table. James Taylor’s “Shower the People” was practically her philosophy. Proud of her Irish heritage, she was a beloved daughter, a terrific sister, a cherished wife, the fun aunt, a dear friend, and above all, Meg’s mom. Liz graduated from Holyoke High School in 1968, coming of age in a year when history was being made every day. During her years at the College of Our Lady of the Elms and beyond, she found the friends who would be her people for life: Anne (Leary) O’Connor, Karen Turcotte, Anne Hart and Terri Pudlo. After graduating in 1972, she, Anne and Anne H. headed to Jamaica to teach for a year. It was an early sign of two things that would define her: an adventurous streak, and a calling to the classroom. Anne’s husband, Tommy “Okie” O’Connor, introduced Liz to Paul “Gus” Gazda, and Tommy deserves credit for one of the great matches. Liz and Gus married in 1975. They deeply loved and respected each other, shared a whole lot of laughter, and were simply happiest together. Teaching ran in the Frost family, and Liz was a natural. She began her career at Lynch Junior High in Holyoke and later taught at St. Thomas School in West Springfield. She made history and current events come alive for generations of students. She retired in 2015, but St. Thomas School never stopped being her community, and her colleagues became lifelong friends. To know Liz was to know that laugh. She was curious, friendly, a little mischievous, and always up for something fun, and once she started giggling there was no stopping her. She was a runner and a golfer, had a beautiful singing voice and a soft spot for dogs, especially her beloved Boswell and Bailey. Liz loved to travel, especially to Maine with her friends, and she treasured weekends on Cape Cod. Some of her happiest summers were spent at Old Lyme Shores in Connecticut, where they rented a cottage and kept the door open for anyone who wanted sunshine, salt air and a good laugh. But the best times happened around her own table. Liz’s Yankee pot roast was famous, and her Sunday dinners and holiday picnics were where everyone gathered and where the stories and laughter carried through the house. From the day she was born, Meg was the center of Liz’s world. The two of them simply loved being together. Meg still remembers her mom proudly videotaping her as a little girl performing a tap routine to Phil Collins’ “One More Night” (a slow ballad that is about as un-tap-danceable as a song can be, and the family still laughs about it). Liz was enormously proud of Meg’s strength, she would have done anything for her, and the bond between them was the great joy of her life. And her gift to the rest of us was the way she made people feel: welcomed and loved. Liz always said she was blessed to have such wonderful family and friends. The feeling was entirely mutual. In her final years, Liz was cared for by the staff at The Atrium at Cardinal Drive, who looked after her like family. They knew her, looked out for her, and treated her with warmth and dignity every day, and her family will be eternally grateful. The family also thanks the Brookhaven Hospice team for the compassion and kindness they showed Liz, and everyone who loved her, at the end. Besides her parents, Liz was predeceased by her beloved husband, Paul “Gus” Gazda; her siblings Ann Frost, Joan Frost, Veronica Sears and Dr. Robert Frost; her brothers-in-law Jack Sears, Peter Gazda and Jack Burke; and her niece Catherine Frost. She is survived by her daughter, Maureen “Meg” Gazda; her brother George Frost (Clare) of East Setauket, NY; her sister Kathy Burke of Sandwich, MA; her sister-in-law Brigid Frost of West Hartford, CT; her brother-in-law Michael Gazda (Diane) and sister-in-law Susan Gazda, all of Southwest Florida; and many cherished nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, extended family and beloved friends. Calling hours will take place at Toomey-O’Brien Funeral Home in West Springfield on Friday, October 23, from 4 to 7 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Thomas the Apostle Parish, West Springfield, on Saturday, October 24, at 11 a.m. A private burial will take place at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to St. Thomas School for the Elizabeth Gazda Education Scholarship, or to the Alzheimer’s Association in memory of Elizabeth Gazda. Liz would love it if you played nine holes as the sun went down, gathered the family for Sunday pot roast, thanked a teacher, took the dog for a walk, put on some James Taylor, and laughed until you couldn’t stop.

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Patricia ConnorsPatricia (Bailey) Connors, 79, died peacefully on the morning of Friday, October 9th at Baystate Medical...
10/14/2026

Patricia Connors

Patricia (Bailey) Connors, 79, died peacefully on the morning of Friday, October 9th at Baystate Medical Center. Daughter of the late Howard and Helen (Leate) Bailey, she was a longtime West Springfield resident.

After graduating from Haverhill High school, Pat went on to starting a family and becoming a very successful business woman having owned Advantage Staffing in West Springfield for 25 years, retiring in 2022. She enjoyed spending time at her beach house sitting on the deck, watching the water. She loved playing games, listening to Patsy Cline, Elvis and spending time with family, friends and her beloved furry friend Chloe.

In addition to her parents, Pat was also predeceased by her partner Jack Hittman and her brother Howie Bailey. She will be sadly missed by her devoted daughters; Cindy Hersey and her husband Michael of Southwick and Shannon Mathur and her husband Prav of West Springfield, her sister Deb Forte and her husband Danny and her brother Joey Bailey, beloved grandchildren; Chelsea Reyes and her husband Adriano, Zachary Hersey and Colin Mathur, cherished great grandson Connor Hersey, as well as many nieces, nephews and close friends.

Visitation will be held on Tuesday, October 20th from 2-4 PM at Toomey O’Brien Funeral Home, 1043 Westfield St., West Springfield.

Contributions in memory of Patricia may be made to the Thomas J. O'Connor Animal Control and Adoption Center, 627 Cottage St, Springfield, MA 01104.

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Lillian Agnes (Bielik) RomaniakAfter almost a century of a very rich life, Lillian Agnes (Bielik) Romaniak died peaceful...
10/12/2026

Lillian Agnes (Bielik) Romaniak

After almost a century of a very rich life, Lillian Agnes (Bielik) Romaniak died peacefully on Thursday, October 8.

Lillian was born in Springfield on September 6, 1928, the youngest of five daughters of Joseph and Maryanna (Bebenek) Bielik. She grew up fluent in both Polish, her first language, and English. After she graduated from Cathedral High School in 1945, she began working for East Springfield Coal and Oil, which her father founded.

In 1948, she married Eugene Frederick Romaniak. They had three children, Susan, David and Cindy, whom they raised in a home on Chester Street in West Springfield that Gene designed and built. Lillian lived in that home from 1950 through 2026 – a remarkable 76-year residence.

Lillian retired as office manager for East Springfield Oil in 1991 but definitely did not recede to a rocking chair. She remained very active with traveling, playing bridge and creating art well into her ‘90s. Her watercolors are especially good and were featured in several shows and exhibits; many now hang in the homes of family and friends. Lillian was a longtime member and past President of the West Springfield Garden Club. And she defied geriatric stereotypes by becoming a confident user of computers and smartphones, which she used to play bridge and to keep in touch with family around the world until the last months of her life.

Always ready for travel, Lillian went on many trips with Gene during their life together. After his death, she continued to travel, visiting destinations around the country and the world. Among her favorite trips were the ones she made with her grandchildren to her mother’s hometown in Poland.

Lillian was predeceased by a great many family members, including her parents and her four sisters and their husbands: Helen and Walter Rostek Sr.; Mary and Felix “Phil” Taskey; Stella and Lawrence “Ernie” Bartyzel; and Irene and Stanley Krach. She was also predeceased by her grandson Joshua Romaniak in 1974; her husband Gene in 1983; her son David in 2013; and her nephew Bob, who was like a son to her, in 2020.

She is survived by a large family as well, including her loving daughters and their husbands, Susan and Jim Richer and Cindy Romaniak and Howard Bernard; her treasured daughter-in-law Debby Romaniak; and her de facto son Chris Paul and his wife Marge. She leaves five grandchildren – Sarah Dawson and her husband Chris; Kris Romaniak and his wife Robyn; Jane Richer; Jamie Romaniak and his companion Jess Pope; and Barry Bernard and his wife Meghan; as well as Erica Paul. Lillian was also the proud great-grandmother of eight, ranging in age from 21 years to three months: Ivan Romaniak, Grace Dawson, Lily Romaniak, Alivia Romaniak, Dillon Romaniak, Elyse Romaniak, Waylon Bernard and Aralyn Bernard. Lillian also leaves dozens of nieces and nephews, including 12 greats, 19 great-greats and one great-great-great (with another on the way). They will remember her as she asked to be remembered – as someone who truly enjoyed life and all her friends and family.

To honor and remember Lillian, family and friends are invited to gather at Toomey-O’Brien Funeral Home (1043 Westfield Street, West Springfield) from 9:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. on Monday, October 19. A funeral Mass at St. Thomas Church (47 Pine Street, West Springfield) will follow at 11:30 a.m.

Contributions in memory of Lillian may be made to the West Springfield Senior Center, in care of the Director Laurie Gearing, 128 Park Street, West Springfield, MA 01089-3315.

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Richard "Buddy" Lavalette, Sr.Richard Lavalette Sr., 77 of Mooresville, North Carolina, died Sept. 16, 2026, after a pro...
10/08/2026

Richard "Buddy" Lavalette, Sr.

Richard Lavalette Sr., 77 of Mooresville, North Carolina, died Sept. 16, 2026, after a prolonged illness.

Known as Buddy to his family and friends, he was born Nov. 15, 1948, in Springfield, Massachusetts, and grew up in neighboring Agawam, where he graduated from high school in 1966. Following graduation, he enlisted and served in the U.S. Army. He then embarked on a three-decade career with the phone company, first as a technician for New England Telephone and then for AT&T before joining the "Baby Bells" as a telephone lineman. His aptitude for fixing things extended to home, where he was as capable of repairing a car or plumbing problem as he was doing woodworking or gardening. He spent years playing high-level competitive softball and then coached youth baseball, enjoying both the competition and teaching while passing down his love of the game to young players.

He is survived by his wife of 49 years, Charlotte (Cooley); three sons: Richard Jr. (Lindsay), of Mooresville, North Carolina; Christopher (Melissa), of Denver, Colorado; and Cory (Barbara), of Raleigh, North Carolina; grandchildren Izzy, Brodie, Ryder and Trey; and two sisters, Genie Milillo (Nick), of Feeding Hills, Massachusetts, and Valerie Armitage, of West Springfield, Massachusetts. He was predeceased by his parents, Eugene and Josephine.

There will be a Memorial Visitation 12:30-2:30pm on November 12 at Toomey-O'Brien Funeral Home followed by 3pm Committal at the Massachusetts Veterans Memorial Cemetery in Agawam.

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Nancy J. JoyalNancy (Lanier) Joyal was born on June 24, 1951 to John and Evelyn (Talbot) Lanier in Springfield. She grew...
10/06/2026

Nancy J. Joyal

Nancy (Lanier) Joyal was born on June 24, 1951 to John and Evelyn (Talbot) Lanier in Springfield. She grew up in the Pine Point neighborhood in Springfield and attended Our Lady of the Sacred Heart school and Church.

Nancy graduated from Cathedral High School in Springfield in 1969 and went on to attend Springfield Technical Community College, graduating in 1971 and going back for a second degree in 1980.

Nancy met Denis Joyal in 1971 and they were married in April of 1973. At the time she worked as a legal secretary at Mass Mutual but then worked as a transcriber for various local court reporting agencies for 15 years from home, while raising her children. While working from home, she became engaged in crafting, producing over 100 items for family and friends to celebrate special moments, of cross stitch, embroidery and crocheting.

The family moved to West Springfield in 1988 and have lived there ever since. Eventually she went to work for McLaughlin Paper Co. in West Springfield in 1996 and retired from there in 2014. Nancy and Denis were able to enjoy many years of travelling, spending time with family (especially annual sibling reunions) and with friends, going to concerts and the Majestic Theater. She was so happy when spending time with family and volunteering in every school in Springfield that her children attended, and then later in the West Springfield schools. Participating in March of Dimes fundraisers for years with family was also a very meaningful experience. However, the greatest joy was watching their children and grandchildren play sports and accomplish so much in their lives!

Nancy leaves behind her beloved husband of 53 years; daughter Cynthia Walder and her husband Brian; son Paul and his wife Elizabeth. Memere will be remembered fondly by granddaughter Alaina Walder; grandsons Aaron, Brady and Brett Walder; Jahviel Rosario and Anzel Guzman Vila; brothers William (Adele), Richard (Diane), Michael (Linda), Robert (Deena) and Kenneth (Idy). Nancy also leaves behind many kind and supportive friends. She will also be remembered by numerous first cousins, 24 nieces and nephews, 46 great nieces and nephews, and 13 great-great nieces and nephews.

Visitation will be 5-7pm on October 14 at TOOMEY-O’BRIEN FUNERAL HOME. A Mass of Christian Burial will be at 9:30 on October 15 at St. Thomas Church followed by Committal at the Massachusetts Veterans Memorial Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please consider a memorial donation in Nancy’s name to Cancer House of Hope, 1999 Westfield St, West Springfield, MA 01089.

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Joseph W Nevers JrIt is with heavy hearts that the family of Joseph W. Nevers Jr. of West Springfield announces his pass...
10/06/2026

Joseph W Nevers Jr

It is with heavy hearts that the family of Joseph W. Nevers Jr. of West Springfield announces his passing on October 1, 2026, at Baystate Medical Center. Born in Springfield on May 13, 1935, to the late Joseph W. Sr. and Mary (Kulik) Nevers.Joe loved sports, hockey most of all – he began playing at a young age. He was a 'rink rat', working and getting lessons at the old barn - also known as the Coliseum. He was a proud member of the 1952 West Springfield High Hockey State Champs Team. Joe would continue to play hockey well into his late 70's and watch every Bruins game. Behind hockey was a love for baseball - playing for West Side High and for the South End Little Devils and always rooting for the Red Sox. Joe graduated from West Springfield High School in 1953. Following high school, Joe began working at the Springfield Armory and then enlisted in the United States Army. He was a proud veteran and could often be seen wearing his Korean War Veteran hat. When he returned from the service, he met his wife, Marlene Bouley and they married in September 1960. Following his military service, he established his lifelong career at Western Massachusetts Electric Company where he was a lineman. After an industrial accident, Joe returned to work while attending night courses at AIC to become an overhead engineer and he would retire from WMECO with a 30 year career. He had a passion for riding Harley's, attending the Belknap races, riding with friends, participating in Toy Runs and riding downtown to Bike Night at Stearns Square. Joe was a long-time apheresis donor, even being acknowledged for his donations on the field with his family at Fenway Park. Joe and Marlene shared many wonderful years at Matunuck Beach, RI where they built lifelong friendships and countless memories. Leaving his family with lasting memories are his wife of 66 years Marlene (Bouley) Nevers, his daughter Linda and Russell Turner of Agawam, his son David Nevers and Krista Buoniconti of West Springfield. Grandchildren Callie Fruiwirth, Freddie Fruiwirth, Samantha Fruiwirth and great grandchild Mackenzie Fruiwirth. Along with his family, Joe leaves behind many dear friends and relatives. The family would like to acknowledge the wonderful care Joe received at Baystate Medical Center – thank you to all on the 5th and 7th floor of the Mass Mutual Wing. Calling hours for Joe will be held Monday October 12, 2026, from 4-6PM at the Toomey-O’Brien Funeral Home 1043 Westfield St West Springfield. A funeral home service will be Tuesday at 1PM followed by burial with military honor at 2PM at the Mass Veteran’s Memorial Cemetery in Agawam. Donations can be made to Wounded Warriors or Shriner’s Children Hospital.

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William F HartfordWest Springfield, Dr William “Bill” F Hartford, 77, passed away Friday September 18. 2026. Born in Spr...
10/01/2026

William F Hartford

West Springfield, Dr William “Bill” F Hartford, 77, passed away Friday September 18. 2026. Born in Springfield, January 15, 1949, he was the son of the late Francis J and Julia (Andras) Hartford. He lived his entire life in his childhood home in West Springfield, attended St Thomas the Apostle School and attended West Springfield High School. Bill was an Army veteran during the Vietnam War serving three tours there from 1967-1970. He utilized the GI bill to earn a Doctorate Degree in History from UMass. He became a freelance historian authoring several books on labor history, his first focusing on Holyoke. He also published a book in 2023 that was a study on John Quincy Adams and John C Calhoun, titled “Adams and Calhoun-From Shared Vision to Irreconcilable Conflict.” Besides his parents he was predeceased by his brother, Thomas in 2022. He leaves his siblings, Anne Kent of West Springfield, John “Jack” Hartford and his wife Karen of VT, Kathy Vermette and her husband James of Chicopee, Philip Hartford of West Springfield and Lori Hare and her husband Gary of Feeding Hills, and his sister in law, Christine Hartford of Springfield. A graveside service will be held Friday October 9, 2026 at 11:30AM at St Thomas Cemetery. Toomey-O’Brien Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.

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