03/09/2026
Sometimes the argument is loud, but the need underneath it is quiet
“I need to know I matter”
“I need to feel wanted”
“I need you to understand me”
“I need to know we’re okay”
Couples can become so focused on defending their position that they miss what their partner is actually reaching for
The goal isn’t to never fight. It’s to become better at recognising what you’re fighting for🤎
What do you think sits underneath most relationship conflict?