26/10/2026
Every child needs at least one adult who really gets them.
Someone who notices when things aren’t quite right, who looks beyond the behaviour and takes the time to wonder what’s actually going on for that child.
It’s easy to focus on the behaviour we can see, especially when things are challenging. But often there’s so much more happening underneath.
Being that person doesn’t mean having all the answers, never getting frustrated or always knowing the right thing to say.
Sometimes it’s about sitting alongside a child when things feel hard, listening without rushing to fix things, holding boundaries with kindness and making sure the relationship stays intact, even after a difficult moment.
Children need to know that having a hard time doesn’t make them hard to love or support.
And sometimes, just one adult who consistently shows them that can make all the difference. 🦋