03/09/2026
Would you like to view your loved one?
For many families, seeing their loved one after death can bring a profound sense of peace, acceptance and closure. It can make the reality of the loss gentler to comprehend and provide a quiet, final moment together. In some cases, seeing them in a quiet moment before the funeral service, helps to ease the tension of grief and can assist in creating a calmer experience during the funeral.
For others, choosing not to view is the more comforting decision. Often people express that they would rather remember their loved one in happier times, instead of having the viewing as the last image they have of them.
There is no right or wrong choice—only what feels right for you and your family.
Consider what you feel you need, what you believe will bring you peace, and whether a final moment of farewell may be meaningful to you.
A viewing can become a quiet and sacred time of prayer, reflection and remembrance. It may be an opportunity to place a final touch upon your loved one, to say words left unsaid, to pray beside them, or simply to entrust them into the loving hands of God.
Within the Christian tradition, we are reminded that death is not the end. As we gather in prayer and entrust our loved one to God, we hold firmly to the hope of Christ and the promise of the Resurrection.
The moments surrounding death can be tender and deeply sacred. Whether you choose to view your loved one or to remember them through prayer and other meaningful acts of farewell, may your heart find comfort in knowing that love does not end at death, and that in Christ, the grave does not have the final word.
“I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live.” — John 11:25