26/08/2026
๐ฑ What is my childโs behaviour trying to tell me?
When our child is hitting, yelling, refusing, trying to control everything, withdrawing or suddenly becoming extra clingy, it can be easy to focus on stopping the behaviour.
But sometimes it helps to ask a different question:
๐ญ โWhat might my child be trying to communicate right now?โ
Children donโt always have the words, emotional awareness or capacity to tell us:
โIโm overwhelmed.โ
โI donโt feel safe.โ
โI need some control.โ
โIโm worried.โ
โThis feels too hard.โ
โI need you close.โ
So sometimes, they show us instead.
This doesnโt mean we ignore unsafe or challenging behaviour, or that boundaries aren't important. It means we can hold the boundary while also being curious about what is happening underneath it. ๐
When we understand the need behind the behaviour, we have a better chance of responding with the connection, support and guidance our child actually needs.
๐ Swipe through for a few common behaviours, what they might be communicating, and some simple ways you can respond.
And remember โ every child is different. Behaviour is communication, but it isn't a diagnosis, and there isn't always one simple explanation.
๐ฟ Worried about your child or wondering whether they might benefit from some extra support?
We offer FREE 15-minute phone consultations where you can chat with our team about what's happening and explore whether play therapy may be a good fit.
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Curious Box Therapy | Springwood, QLD
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